Hi guys.

I had a very strong flirt with this girl for like 2 months. We kissed, and went out, but didn't have sex! Although that was my goal to fuck this girl, my feelings got in the way, and i ruined it for myself.

Our flirt stopped because of small problems, and i overreacted. I hardcore freezed her out, and didn't show her attention or talk to her for a month.

This Friday my plan was to go talk to her, and see if i still could get it with her. But that night i felt that it was unnecessary and i should move on. - But i still think of her, and i really want to get her. I can't get her if i sit back and wait for the next party, so I thought of calling her, and talking with her saying something this way:

"Hey man, i know we haven't talked for a long time and so on. I'm just calling to hear how things is between us, I wanted to talk to you this friday, but time didn't let me. I just don't feel that we should be freezing each other.. Thats awkward to walk by each other and not saying hi or anything. Maybe we should meet someday and talk things out - as friends"

I may put me self in the friendzone with this call, but i got to risk it, that's the only thing i can do now, then i'll maybe get something out of our "meeting".

So guys, what do you think? Should i call a girl, whom i myself freezed out after she partly rejected me(When she rejected me, i took it cooly and moved on, she have seen me with other girls since, and knows thinks that i'm over her).

It's a wierd situation i'm in. If i call her, I may lower my value hardly, and it may not go as well. It will break me up.

So what do you think i should do?

do you ever go out and meet new women?, because you seriously should

I have. But i still wanrt this girl. For me, it's all or nothing

then go for it, all or nothing

Yea that's it. But the odds for "all" is probably only 5%

Do you think it's a good idea to call?

It's not because we haven't seen each other. I have seen her many times, but we haven't talked, because we both are freezing each other...

Me myself, is to get over her. But i feel that i have not fought enough to keep her

5% is better then 0%, might as well go all or nothing as earlier you said that is what you wanted, figure out what you want and pursue it, the only thing that can happen is you possibly get it, if you don't it would be the exact same as not trying, just don't pussy foot around it, create a situation that supports your goal, and put action into motion that moves forward with what you want, escalate, don't procrastinate, and if she does not come along for the ride, stop wasting your time and go get a girl that will come along for the ride