So I went to a singles event with a friend and she drove. Of course, she ends up hooking up with someone else and leaves without telling me.

In the meantime, I'm talking to this girl and we get to know each other and eventually decide to dance. She didn't seem like the type of person to rush things so I only did what kino escalation I could. Whenever I wanted to say something to her, I would lean in and put my hand on the side of her stomach or a hand on the back. Anyways, I end up asking her for a ride and she accepts. I ask her if she wants to get lunch sometime and she gives me her number.

So now that I have her number, the question is when do I respond and how do I respond and what do I say?

"So now that I have her number, the question is when do I respond and how do I respond and what do I say?"


the honest most decent answer is:learn some game dude! wtf?

too much to answer...seriously you need to up your game,that's basic man.

but lets see...

1."what do i say"? 1.that you're going with some friends bowling next week,and she can drop by if she want,and that she have to controll herself and not have sex with you immediatly..you're not easy...at least not THAT easy.

2."when do I respond?" 2.the next day if you wanna keep the attraction from last time and fuck her within a day OR after three days.dosent matter TOO much though imho...

3."how do I respond?" 3.depends,are you direct? if so call her...if you're not so direct then text her...you really should have an answer to this one yourself...

anywho,i hoped i helped man,wish you best dude.

and remember..be awesome

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So I friended her on facebook and she accepted. And I sent her a text asking when are you free for lunch? She hasn't replied though.

I'm new to the game so other vets can feel free to add to my response.

I feel as though you haven't created enough attraction yet to ask her out to lunch yet. You do have some compliance with her giving you a ride, but before pulling the trigger, you should take your time and build attraction and then ask her out to some place incidentally that you two both might have in common.

for example, if you were talking to her on the drive back to your house you guys might have been talking about art and you say "I'm going to this art gallery on Sunday, you should come along" that way you are leading her, which is an alpha quality.

Plus, if she denied you then it doesnt matter because you were going to the art gallery regardless if she was going or not. she was just extra excitement.

That should be your mentality