we live in a smaller town (oost-vlaanderen, belgium)

i did the flirting and the number game with a old female friend , just i can guest the number you think about didnt work well , i said : quickly set a number from 0 to 10 in your head and i'll guess it ....

is it 7 ?

no... its six

so i said : you allready played that game before

she said : no i have not , it really was 6....

i was flirting constantly , checking other woman out , and she looked also the direction i looked in , zo she feels that i look arround for beautifull woman like alphamales do

at the end of the night (last hour) she picks another guy and stays there and talks , looking from time to time at me , i think she was checking if she could do some sorth of bitchtest on me , i did like i dont care...

from entering the club to leaving the club many woman where checking me out all night , some dance real close to mee , looking in the eyes , like they where saying : talk to me , but i locked up , i didnt wanted to say a bad opener
it seems to me that woman from smaller towns are more closed in conversations then girls from big towns (this could be only in my mind , but some friends from holland said the same thing to me : dutch girls are more open then belgium girls from smaller towns )

are there tips for a junior like me to approach and open girl , so i can build uit this better in the future ?

also the sets that where checking me out where at least hb9 , and there where 3 constantly looking and talking to eachother , so a 3set , i locked up

if i can open a few times with succes i know it would be more like routine to me , and it would get better to do ...

so thinking about your first openers / experience , what would you advice
any posters/(m)pua's from belgium , your feedback is verry welkom
any member his tips are verry welkom , dont need to be belgium

i think dress style and how i walk , act are allready good , i read the game , i read how to become a alphamale , i'm currently reading masterflirt....
its the approach and opening that is hard , sinds i'm still beginner

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beginning pua ( still learning as much stuff as possible )

Hi, I'm also a beginner and I'm also from Belgium (Brussels).
I really don't think that girls from big towns are easier
to approach or to have a conversation with.
If anything it's the opposite.
Girls in big towns are usually a lot more suspicious and unfriendly to strangers,
it's probably also because they are approached by hundrerds of oafish guys no matter where they go.

What I suggest to you is simply to say "hi" to those girls from your town and then start a conversation about
anything that comes to your mind. No need for any sophisticated openers or anything. If they feel any interest for you (based on what
you said it looks like they do) they are going to respond.

A good exercice that I also try to practice is to talk to anybody (mostly girls but not only hot girls) no matter where you go (in the train, shop etc.). Nothing special just try to have a natural conversation about anything that comes to your mind. It will help you gain confidence and make it easier for you to talk to any hot women you like.

thanks for the advice

yeah say hi to every girl on the street is my next practice...

in a disco its harder to start a conversation with the loud music....

next weekend i'm going to the koko rico , ill hope to approach there some hb's...

any more advice is allways welkom ,the first steps are the most difficult , after that you start to jump to auto-pilot

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beginning pua ( still learning as much stuff as possible )

Jow man,


I'm also Goin to KokoRico next saturday. I'm from Holland (the Netherlands)

Maybe we could meet there. I'm a beginner also. And I agree with the poster Oliz ,

You got already tons of signs from these girls, so no mather how you open, they most likely will respond positive.

I think your biggest fair, is how to keep the conversation going, right?


I;m at the same stage as you I guess. I went out yesterday in the club, had tons of eyecontact and even girls that came dancing and standing nearby me. exacetely as you mentiond the eyes followed me when I walked in the club. I had a very high energy level.


But is was to pussy to approach them, its where I'm stuck at the moment.


i'M READING THE game, I think I just need the routines, because it seems they are attracted, but I just dont know how to handle it.

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Hustler

see ya @ kokorico....

tonight it's game on ....

approaching at least 5 chicks , thats a rule i will follow tonight

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beginning pua ( still learning as much stuff as possible )

total flop....
approaching is harder then i thought...

the last half hour a hb7 was constantly checking me out , i watched carefully that i act like a alpha would do , i looked at her , she smilled at me , i smilled back , that would been the sign to approach , but i could not flip the switch to approach , so she goes away..... 15min later i was going home , she was at the bar where i walked by to go to the exit of the disco , she sees me and i notice that she started to walk behind me , when i leaved the door i saw her turn back....

in my car driving home i was constantly thinking : fuuuuccckk

approaching is hard , i would thinked that it would be a piece of cake, just flipping the switch but i lock up.....

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beginning pua ( still learning as much stuff as possible )