When it comes to gaming "hired guns" or whatever you call them (be it at a cafe, store, market or wherever the place of work is), what is the best way to do it and actually get her to #-close you or agree a D2 despite the fact she is actually at work and supposed to be doing a job serving customers and she may feel reluctant to be seen giving out her personal contacts when she is supposed to be working and the possible trouble it could get her into from her co-workers or people in charge?
There have been times when I did banter very well and have a very friendly chat with an HB in such a location and they even acknowledged it was very nice to meet me but part of me wonders:-
- Did they just say that because it is their job to look nice and friendly to everyone and put on a possible fake personality?
- The longer we talk and with other customers wanting assistance, they may get very impatient and she will feel the need to end the convo and get back to work?
- Is it a good idea to come again on a sort-of regular basis? I say this because I have given time constraints that were real, but if I come again well, how much is too often? Would there be a chance she picks up on the fact that all I am doing is coming there to talk to her, chat her up again and thus destroy any potential attraction?
Thoughts please!
