i would go up to her and say ahhh ive seen that look before where was it oh yeh thats it the look of you relly wanna buy me a drink ..... my names ... etc

or if its at a bus stop i would say to her ..... i though i would come over because the way your staring at me you may miss your bus.. my names ..

regardless of how you go up to her, it is important to do it SOON

if you wait too long, you're going to make her feel like you didnt want her, she's your second choice, etc, etc

The funniest thing happened to me last saturday night.

I went out with a non-community friend and a guy that he works with and "really didn't want to sarge." Ok, I thought it would be a good chance to work on my non-verbals, so I dressed in a sexually-aware kind of way (TIPP--like always when I leave the house) I paid especially good attention to my smile, body language, etc. and made eye contact with every chick I saw--yeah, even the fat ones.

The club was just getting started to fill up when my friends started to say that they wanted to leave. Ok, I really didn't want to sarge and had even drank way too much to be able to communicate optimally, but there was one chick who was totally checking me out for about 40 minutes. The interesting thing was that she showed very accomidating body language, not just eye contact. She would turn around for a few minutes, then look over her shoulder, see me still there, then turn her whole body to me. She leaned back against a railing all of the time, exposing her throat and with her feet / legs as far apart as I do when I show women that I'm sexually confident.

Alright, at this point, things were getting ridiculous, so I told my friends to wait a minute and walked up to her. I was trying to get my friend to try the "do spells work" opener the whole night, so I thought I would prove to him that it works. I walked up, told her I needed a female opinion and she interuppted me, telling me "you sure took long enough."

I said "what are you talking about? Maybe I just saw you here."

"Yeah, right! I saw you checking me out the whole night."

"Wait a minute, that means that you were checking me out the whole night, too, but you didn't have the balls . . . uh . . . ovaries, to go up and talk to me and now its my fault that you had to wait so long. Don't tell me that that's your game--standing around thinking to yourself wow, what a sexy son of a bitch, I hope he comes over to talk to me."

"Well, it worked."

"Listen, the reason why I came over is to ask, ---spells routine---" (my mistake, she was almost literally begging me to kiss her and I decide all of a sudden to go indirect )

"I don't believe in spells and I don't care why he fell for her."

While doing the spells routine, I ran some kino, touching her hair and chin while moving her head to look into her witch-eyes, etc. Then I grabbed her hands and asked "Where's the ring?"

"Why?"

"You're acting like a married woman."

"I'm separated."

I had been drinking and my friend drove, so it was logistically impossible to SNL her and I didn't want to get involved in that married woman bullshit and there are lots of other women in the world, so I didn't want to get a number from her, therefore I just grabbed her with both hands in her jaw joint area, smiled, and said: "Fuck your husband, you're going to be fine without him," gave her a big wet kiss and left.

The bottom line is, if you get IOI's from a chick, it doesn't matter what you say to her, even if you do violate the 3 sec rule, as long as you show enough confidence.

I beat the shit out of the 3 sec rule, and I just played with the fact that she was also checking me out, retaining control of the frame. Instead of allowing her to control the frame by thinking that I was afraid to approach, I had us both believing that she was so into me that I could have made her wait another hour and she would still have been grateful to be able to connect with me.

What I learned from this experience is that a chick is ready to be kissed when she is ready to be kissed--it could be immediately, like in my most recent experience, or it can be never, if you fuck up.

I've also made a decision to ALWAYS KISS IMMEDIATELY, AS SOON AS THE IOI'S ARE THERE. That's funny, because I had told my friend about Gambler's non-verbal kiss close that he talked about on pickuppodcast.com and he didn't believe that it would have worked. You need to hear this podcast if you didn't already. Next time I'm in-field, I WILL use it at least once.

however you open, don't wait too much.

If you do so, she will think you are gathering every drop of courage to do a simple approach, thus losing a great deal of your appeal as alpha male and man.

and personaly, if you're sure she was indeed checking you out, the opener should be somehow related to this fact, not using an isolated opener but mentioning her looking at you (or even being attracted to you, it depends) so it can engage her. A comment related to the enviorment is also good.

hope it helps GL

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--POSSUNT QUIA POSSE VIDENTUR--
They can because they think they can

you: How many layers of clothing have you already taken off me?

you: You should at least buy me flowers before you eye-rape me like that.

you: So, you're the girl who's in love with me.

you: My eyes aren't THAT beautiful

you: wow, I really need to thank my friend
HB: what for?
you: She said my ass would look great in these pants, and going by your look, boy was she right.

Doesn't really matter what you say, but I'd make it C&F and somewhat sexual. And as said, do it asap, unless your in a set (even one that isn't going anywhere), then make her wait and let the social proof grow.

How about just waving her over to you and saying (or mouthing, in a loud environment) "come here"

I discovered it by accident when a guest I know at the disco I work as a bouncer in on weekends told me that some chick had been staring at me--hard. I asked him which one and he said "The one in the black mini."

"Dude, there are two girls in black minis."

"The one with the long black hair."

"They both have black hair. For Christ's sake, just point!"

He did, I gave her a smile, waved her over to us the next time she looked and said "You know, I'm not suppossed to flirt with guests while I'm working, but you're kind of cute, so I thought I would introduce myself. What's your name . . ."

The guy was totally impressed with my 30 sec number close (I just told her I couldn't talk much, but I want to, when I have the time,) but it was bullshit. I mean, she was checking me out, so all I had to do was be friendly and very confident.

Being at work helped because I wasn't able to game much under the circumstances and therefore couldn't make many mistakes, nor did I have to think of much to say, but still, this is money for this situation.

Motion her to come over to you while not letting go of eye-contact.

pua "You're not allowed to look at me like that and not say hi! I'm (name"
hb "giggle, hi i'm Sonya"
pua "You too? Jeez I met like 2 other Sonya's these past few days."

Or whatever her name is.

hahaha, going to use that for sure!

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That's good! You think of that yourself?

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HERES THE BEST LINE FOR THIS SITUATION

*grin and walk over to her while making hard eye contact, lean in to her ear and says "you can't look at me that way and get away with it"

throw the ball at her

*HB is checking you out*

PUA: "are you scared?"
HB: "what??"
PUA: "I saw you were checking me out.."
PUA: "but you never came to me to say hi"
HB: "yeah..."
PUA: "I guess you have aproach anxiety? you should check the internet, there's a lot of stuff about that"

"Hey its not polite to stare but I guess I'll let it slip this once" > introduction

this is golden and works for me everytime.
If I notice a girl checking me out.
Gonzo: Hey that look your giving me is kind of creeping me out. it feels as if your undressing me with your eyes.
HB: uhhhh uhhhhh (begging to get embarrassed)
Gonzo: how about this, My name is gonzo...yours?

this is golden and works for me everytime.
If I notice a girl checking me out.
Gonzo: Hey that look your giving me is kind of creeping me out. it feels as if your undressing me with your eyes.
HB: uhhhh uhhhhh (begging to get embarrassed)
Gonzo: how about this, My name is gonzo...yours?