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Thanks on the insight guys(Moreno & all).

Update(lmao):

I usually posts from my mobile a Im doing right now while walking from the near-by bakery;hope not to get strucc down(lol).

Right now as I write,the same HB10 is literally walking 100 yards infront of me(lol).

Im laughing 'cause of the irony.

Im definitely not gonna chase her down nor yell out 'Yo' from afar.

But she is glancing back either at me or something else.

She's pretty far so I cant see where her eyes are but he' dfinitely glancing back at me every 10 second or so.

Should I chase,run to her,yell stop,yell hey wait!!?

Im tempted guys.

But logistics are shitty right now.

I'll see her soon again;eventhough some guy's mind set would be,"get her now,fuck logistics and looking try- hard".

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This has actually happened to me. I invested so much time on how to approach and work my own game that I completely overlooked the event of someone approaching me!

Since the usual pua approach from scratch is Opener>Attraction>Comfort>Seduction you can assume that if a girl opens you that you don't need to use the opener (to start the interaction at least) and also that she has some level of attraction. What I would say is react this way Neg>Opener>TC> and then move onto your usual stuff whether it's situational or routines etc.


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@Mr Enygma-I'd eliminate the standard format too since we can assume the girl's attracted.

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If i was you i'd out walk her.. and when you get close you can say something like "hey why are you running away from be don't be shy i don't bite"


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@Farismagic-I get your drift.

I was a rebel at doing and saying exactly that,"Im not gonna bite you".

I would typically try out walk an HB to catch up with her.

But what makes this differnt is that she threw me the hell off day before!!

So Im a bit hesitant to go to battle since she's on the offense.

Opposed to going up to a girl on cold approach with material already sought out.

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@k-loc
The first time she approached you was an indirect approach. If you know she's interested in you because of the fact that she came up to talk to you. maybe go indirect so she doesn't know what to defend against, nor know what you want until you give her an IOI after DHV stories and keno. i know you are not a big fan of indirect from previous posts but if shes into you i think its worth spending 15 min talking to HB10 and n -closing her cuz if you know she's into you it wouldn't be a waste of time. (she approached you indirectly maybe give her a taste of her own medicine)


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@Farismagic-Good tactic to psych her out.

BTW,Im actually an indirect-guy.

I only go indirect actually.

Im the biggest fan of in-direct gaming.

Only time I go semi- direct is when the girl's blatantly hitting on me(sexually)or in club settings.

So I have no prbs' at going indirect;it's what I love & advocate.

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next time when a girl ask you many questions go "wow, You ask a lot of questions. I think you already know too much!"
that's a great neg. you both know that if she keeps on asking questions, the chat will become a "small talk" which is uncomfortable.
also, you'll regain the frame of the chat and start to stack on your routines. that'll impress her.


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@Darknogo-Basically it's game on as usual.

But fellaz,please understand where Im coming from on this one;I was apprached by an HB10!!

I dont usually rate girls 10,but this 1 was,and she approached me.

So me being witty,C&F and game on as usual wasnt an option 'cause I was caught off guard.

Not by her beauty but by the approach.

Even if this was a 5 or UG(ugly girl),I would've still felt defensive and unsure of how to game as usual.

This' a real test for me and I have to get this shit in order because I felt super-awkward.

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ok, so i would recommend the next thing.
put this sentence in your brain and memorize it, everytime that a girl hits on you in any way, go like "Wow, slow down. why don't you buy me a drink or something before you hit on me like that" with a smile.
even if, you're not in a club or a pub. it still works, since you're going like "first be more classic before you hit on me".
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I dont mean to invade your thread but this kind of was the same thing that happened to me at a club the other night. We were waiting on a friend whos birthday it was so my boys were chilling on the couches so I said im going to check out the dance floor. I stood on the edge of the dance floor just observing to see some potential targets for later, a 3 set walks by me and I took a mental note, just as I was doing that, a 4th girl from that same set walks by me, places her hand on my shoulder and starts dancing with her hand still on my shoulder.

At that exact moment I didnt know how to react lol. In a split second decision, I decided to grab her hand so I could reciprocate the action and dance with her, but her friends pulled her away so I just laughed it off and returned to my friends.

Im shocked that I really didnt know what to do, this was not the first time this has happened either at clubs. Id be standing on top of a stair case looking over on the dance floor and two girl walk by and slap my ass, my jaw just dropped and I was paralyzed as they walked away. At that same club as I made my way through the dance floor, a girl grabbed my hand, when I turn around she is smiling at me, but another guy is holding her other hand leading her away. Gotta figure these things out lol.

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@Darknogo-Well Im a note-taker so I'd definitely try remembering that.

Isnt that a Mystery or Matador line?

I took note of that C&F line years ago.

I d use it in set(honestly)but only when on offense.

@XxIcexx-Lol,nah you're not invading-pretty relevant post.

Lmao,I had to laugh when you said her friend pulled her away.

You definitely get what Im saying about not knowing how to react.

Lol,"paralyzed as they walked away",great way to describe being hit on by girls.

This doesnt happen to me often but everytime it does,it's always paralyzed me and put me on the defense.

Lol,I damn sure gotta get a grip on it too XxIcexx.

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it's mystery line, it works everytime that a girl try to get my attention.
if you say it in a mall or just on the streets, just make it seem like it's a joke. "buy me a drink first, i'm not that cheap you know!"
it's great since you telling her
1. you just flirted with me!
2. I get that all the time.
3. i'm funny! :P


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I love it I love it-classic Mystery.

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i really enjoyed reading through this thread :D

i was hit on by a HB8(?) a few months ago...i was randomly walking down the street and she came to me and said that i was "so hot",i can't literally translate it from my language but she said something like that...literally it would translate as "your so good " lol

i,having absolutely no game was thrown off from the start and was like....hmm...derp xD,and continued walking,how sad...

last time i was hit on by a girl from my school(HB8),i sent her a FB friend invitation,and she accepted it,and at school she popped a conversation with me,she literally saw me walking through the hall and said from afar that she accepted my FB invitation...i again got anxious and couldn't think of anything to say.so guess what i said..."yeah OK,and so what!?" but not in a playful way,and i think i scared her lol

the biggest problem IMO is that you get AA,so your mind goes blank and you can't think of anything else to say...what i think you need is a little break
next time i think i'm going to try this when a girl approaches me:
I'm going to point my index finger up and say fast...WAIT!
then i'm gonna take a quick peak into my left and my right and afterwards i'm gonna say...ok i'm cool now what were you saying?(and smile)
if she's gona ask me what did i do(and she probably will),i'm gonna say something random like...oh nothin i'm just being chased by the FBI

I think this could give me time to pick up my thoughts and get over the AA :)
what do you guys think? :roll:


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