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PostPosted: Sun Sep 16, 2012 2:04 pm 
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Believing that height is going to stop you is exactly what stops you. I got head off a girl who's 7 inches taller than me a few months ago, completely sober, if that doesn't prove that your height doesn't matter then I don't know what will. If I was worried about my height disqualifying me then I probably would've been disqualified. It also helped that I don't really find her that attractive, even though most of my friends think she's hot - if you put a girl on a pedestal and think that she's better than you or could do better than you for whatever reason then it really affects your game. Just be confident in yourself.

Being short is a handicap when it comes to gaming taller girls, but that doesn't mean for a moment that you can't succeed - you don't need to be perfect.


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PostPosted: Thu Sep 20, 2012 8:07 pm 
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I’m 5’7 and, yes, in the past (and to a lesser extent now) my height has really bugged me especially when I’m after an attractive woman how is taller than me. However I agree with what a lot of the other posters have said on the topic- like The_Psycho and chinopants have said “We’re all the same height lying down” has been something i’ve said a number of times with varying degrees of success (this was before I found game). Also another poster said something along the lines of - if you disqualify yourself on the basis of height then you going to blow your chances with any woman taller than you. I agree with this too, but still my height bothers me. So what to do about it? I have a few suggestions and theories and would love to hear people’s feedback and criticisms on them.
1) Disqualify her, not yourself
Before she has a chance to comment on your height say “You’re too tall, I prefer petite women” or even turn the whole rule that i’ve heard many girls say -“I normally only date men that are taller than me” – on it’s head – “I normally only date women that are shorter than me”.
*This next part is theory I’ve not had the balls to try it yet*
If she asks why ( I’d take that as a IOI I guess) try replying “Well when it comes to relationship I like to be in control of/take the lead/dominate the woman I’m with, and with tall girls I just don’t get the feeling isn’t the same”
Let me explain.
I’ve ask a number of my female friends about why it is they find tall guys attractive and not short guys they usually say something like.
“With a tall guy I feel like a little girl and he’s in control/protecting me/can take care of me”
“With a short guy it feels like he’s a little boy/my little brother”
As normal, it’s not about how tall/good looking/rich you are it’s about how you can make her feel.

2) Wear Heels
No not womens shoes- but low cut cowboy boots or Cuban heels will give you an extra couple of inches. Some may feel a bit silly wearing them, you may even have some taller friends bust your balls for wearing them, but do not worry because your unusual footwear is a double edged sword. Not only do they give you an extra couple of inches in height but they provide you with an excellent, natural opinion opener.
Move yourself close to a set that you want to open and have your wingman bust your balls for wearing different shoes. Argue that you like the boots and think they’re awesome then open with the set asking for their opinion on your footwear.
– Scientists have proven that women like shoes.

3) Push and pull with taller women – (I need help with this)
Using the whole push and pull dynamic has worked great for me in the past, but only with women my height or shorter. I not sure what it is but when I lean back to invite a taller woman into my personal space she either dosen’t move in or bows her head and looks down on me and doesn’t move in as close as I’d like or as a shorter girl would. Perhaps a more experienced member could help us short guys out on how to work the push & pull with tall women.

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PostPosted: Thu Sep 20, 2012 8:24 pm 
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You can also mitigate height issues by waiting until she's seated to approach her. Stand over her, or even sit with her, then your height isn't as noticeable. The key to that is opening her and developing rapport before she has a chance to disqualify you as some random short guy she doesn't know or want to bother get to knowing.

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PostPosted: Thu Sep 20, 2012 9:39 pm 
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1) Disqualify her, not yourself
Before she has a chance to comment on your height say “You’re too tall, I prefer petite women” or even turn the whole rule that i’ve heard many girls say -“I normally only date men that are taller than me” – on it’s head – “I normally only date women that are shorter than me”.
*This next part is theory I’ve not had the balls to try it yet*
If she asks why ( I’d take that as a IOI I guess) try replying “Well when it comes to relationship I like to be in control of/take the lead/dominate the woman I’m with, and with tall girls I just don’t get the feeling isn’t the same”
Good idea to disqualify her first. I think it could be a bad idea to talk about dominating them simply because it makes you seem less competent - you're conveying that you'd be unable to properly handle her.
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2) Wear Heels
Not a bad idea if they suit your style. I'm currently trying an alternative to this - insoles that increase your height. Got them for like £7 off amazon and they add about 5cm in height. It doesn't seem like a whole lot but it does make a difference and you yourself can notice it straight away, giving you a psychological boost in confidence.
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sit with her, then your height isn't as noticeable.
Definitely do this; by the time she realises that you're short you should have already built enough attraction that it wont matter to her.


Another very important tip is to remember good posture - you have to make the most of the height you do have, so stand with a straight back and shoulders slightly back, chin up - typical alpha male posture. You'll look shorter than you are if you slouch


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all of the above in terms of confidence are great but what i've found by practicing on taller girls (I'm 5"7) is by utilizing your surroundings in a bar e.g. sitting on a bar stool, leaning away against stuff or even isolating the target to sit them down or opening a set where they are already seated.

This then subconsciously gets rid of the height situation and once you've worked normal game then they are into you anyway. I'm gaming a girl who is around 3 inches taller than me and it started with me opening the set and stealing the girl's bar stool and even used the line "its for me to stand on when you kiss me" got a few laughs within the group!

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