| Nothing strikes more fear in the heart of a beginning PUA than this dreaded monster.
If you’re just starting out in your journey of becoming the most attractive version of yourself, you’re probably aware of this beast.
You know what it’s like to see a pretty girl in a bar, and to be suddenly seized with fear.
You know how it feels to be completely paralyzed, your heart pounding, knowing that you should move but just not being able to do it.
It just sucks because you know that this is the best way for you to improve, but it’s terrifying.
If only you could conquer this one challenge, then your social experience will pile up and you’ll finally know how to flirt, attract, and seduce the beautiful women waiting for you.
You see, approach anxiety is a barrier that keeps 95% of guys in this community from ever getting good.
And if you don’t know how to beat it, you’ll become part of that 95%.
That’s why in this report, I’m going to show you exactly how to make approach anxiety your bitch.
You’ll find out the exact 5 step process I used to train my body to approach over a thousand girls within the first year of being in game.
And, you’ll enjoy the same rewards that I enjoyed from all this hard work… beautiful women. Piles and piles of them.
Beautiful women in your bed. Beautiful women on dates with you. More beautiful women than you’ll be able to remember.
You see, most guys go about trying to beat this the completely wrong way.
Does this sound familiar at all to you?
You go out, all pumped up and ready. The first couple of girls you see “aren’t attractive enough.”
When your buddy points out a hot girl for you to approach, you see her and make up some excuse not to approach, like, “she’s with her friends.”
Your state starts going down.
As you see more and more girls, you’re more and more paralyzed. You realize that all the reasons you gave earlier are a simple substitute for the real reason: you’re afraid.
If this sounds like you, I want to let you know, it’s not your fault, and you’re not alone.
So many other guys are suffering from the same exact problem you are.
You see, trying to talk to a hot girl right off the bat is like trying to shoot the 3 before learning how to do a lay-up.
Once again, it’s not your fault. You’ve never been exposed to a system that shows you how to shoot the layup first.
Today, that’s what I’m going to show you.
So without further ado, here are…
5 Steps to Eliminate Approach Anxiety
1.
Start by cold approaching guys with logistical openers.
I know your first thought: “I’m afraid of coming off as gay.”
Listen… just talking to someone doesn’t mean you’re attracted to them. In fact, to make it even easier, use an indirect opener on guys:
“Hey, do you know where the closest restroom is?”
“Hi, do you know what the time is?”
“Hey, do you know if there’s a Starbucks around here?”
If you can’t do this first step because of the fear of coming off as gay, there is absolutely no way you’ll be able to hold it together in front of a hot girl.
Hundred percent guaranteed.
2.
Once you’ve got a bunch of these down, and you’re comfortable with them, move on to cold approaching guys with situational or observational openers.
This will train your brain to get really good at coming up with an opener on the spot.
“I like your shirt, man.”
“Have you tried the pizza here?”
“You totally look like somebody I know from high school.”
3.
Now, you’re going to progress on to girls.
However, you’re going to start on the troll-ugly obese Quasimodo girls.
Again, start with logistical openers (like step 1), and progress to situational / observational openers (like step 2).
Troll girls are fantastic for warming up and getting you in the approach mindset, because it trains your body into the habit.
If you can’t approach a troll girl, once again, don’t expect to be able to perform in front of a hot girl.
4.
Ok. You’ve leveled up past troll girls. Fantastic work, I knew you had it in you. You’re already doing better than 90% of the guys out there.
Now the next step is to use the same sequence (logistical openers and then situational / observational openers) on hot girls.
This should be where you start seeing your confidence skyrocket. Yes, you CAN do this!
5.
Finally, the hardest level: direct openers on hot girls.
Remember to work on the core fundamentals that compose 70% of the whole pie: body language, vocal tonality, and eye contact.
The words you say won’t actually matter as much as how you say what you’re going to say.
Once you get comfortable with this, CONGRATULATIONS!
You’ve just made approach anxiety your bitch.
Your mission now is to become an approach machine: rack up as many approaches as you can.
Stockpile social experience like a maniac would stockpile goods before a nuclear war.
You’ve just taken the first step to having a life filled with beautiful women, and for that, I congratulate you.
What’s next for you?
Now, you’ve got to learn good attraction game. Flirting. Teasing. Push-pull.
Then, how to establish comfort and rapport.
Then, how to solve logistics and escalate.
But that’s outside the scope of this report.
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Finally, hit the reply button and leave a comment letting us know how YOU’VE been working on conquering approach anxiety.
Thanks for reading, and keep taking action, you handsome badass!
-Ning
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