| I labeled my pros and my cons with this girl, and they are in the sequence in which they occurred. I will refer to the girl as sexy devil.
PRO (and also the back story): I met a girl at a party while at college and we had a solid conversation, sort of made plans to see a play because I had to go see it for a class and she had friends in the play (the play was a weeks away with several showings which we never set an actual date for). I got her number (she put a devil-smiley-emoji next to her name, which is why I call her sexy devil) and shortly after, I ran out of things to talk about. I said I have to go check on my friend (so that I left the conversation with good vibes) and then hopefully see her another time throughout the night to close. I ended up only seeing her one other time but it was when I was talking to another girl who I thought I was taking home. Since I didn't want to lose the new girl, I opted out of conversing with sexy devil except later borrowing a liter from her (where I had a quick but meaningful conversation (w/ a lot of kino)).
PRO: I highered my social value (during the back story) by having the second girl (she was cute) but I ended up not closing with the sexy devil even though she was my #1.
CON: I ended up going to that play with a group from the class, (but only one girl showed up - I had to watch the whole show just me and her like it was a date) never brought it up to sexy devil (so i never officially cancelled our plans), but ended up sitting right by her while at the play. I didn't notice her until it was dark and the show was going on, so I never made eye contact. But she could have saw me while the house lights were on and realized that I blew her off for, what it seemed like, a date with another girl.
CON: Turns out the sexy devil lives in the same dorming quad as me. I saw her some times but not a lot. Once we had a shitty conversation in the community laundry room but I was stoned so didn't say much. Didn't see her much for the rest of the semester.
PRO/CON: We did have some good text conversations, but also some shitty text conversations (I get a lot of anxiety at college and it fucks up my game hard)...
she also didnt answer to a prime pua text:
(I deleted the texts since then but it went something like this...)
continuing conversation....
Me: do you like the collage I made? *Sent pic of my collage*
Her: where did you make that?
Me: in one of my classes
Her: (no answer)
Me: you don't love it? *emoji* (thought this was prime)
Her: (no answer)
PRO: We were at the same event:
I texted sexy devil a couple weeks ago (while we were still at school) asking if she was going to an event. She never answered. I saw her on the way to the event - didnt give her a direct hello (just said hello to the group), and flirted with her friend walking in front of her. Inside the event I got wasted, walked passed sexy devil, said hello directly, she sort of got in my way of walking but I slyly played it off, then she apologized to me. I kept walking as if I didn't care about her at all. That night I ended up talking to the same new girl I closed with in the back story, and left the event with her well before the time it ended.
PRO: Fast forward to last week (finals week) and I see on sexy devils snap story she lives in the same county as me (it's a big county).
PRO: Fast forward to now (winter break) she friends me on facebook and I find out she lives in the same fucking town as me. She went to high school one district over from mine.
CON: My friends girlfriend lives with sexy devil so I asked him to ask his girlfriend if sexy devil has ever said anything about me (I know, super high school move) and she said that she heard her talking about me once but she doesn't know the details. My friend also told me that he thinks sexy devil is psycho... with possible personality disorder?
Idc, shes super cute, I have to take a chance.
I need to open her and see her while on break - my game is always strong at home. I just don't know how to go about it... Text? facebook message? send a snap?
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