ok guys, well I finally had the time to do some day game on Friday night after some Christmas shopping. Long story short I went to approach this woman,.she didn't attract me at all, like a 3 out of 10. so I said ''hi, hows it going''?......
........and in front of a huge crowd in the street, she stopped dead with so much rage in her eyes and shouted out.....''why don't you FUCK OFF you WORTHLESS PIECE OF SHIT!!'' and the whole street stopped cold what they were doing in silence and focused on it. My instinct was ''awww she is probably having a really bad day, let me ask her whats wrong'' so I said to her, ''why whats wrong babe''? and she said ''FUUUUCCKKKKK OFFF!!!!!'' in a loud tone and stormed off.

I was so embarrassed and a bit shaken up, she made me look like a grade A loser and I shook my head and just went to instinctively talk to the nearest person to me out of embarrassment. ''Can you believe that''? I said to him. And the rude, cold bastard said to me ''don't fucking pal up with me''! and he stormed off also.

Now I felt double embarrassed and pissed off that I let this guy get away with talking to me like that. he walked a distance away from me but then he stopped and we started screwing eachother out from the bridge. ''Great''! I thought to myself. ''I came here to do some pick up, and trying to get some fun interactions going with women and im going to end up getting into a fight instead.''

We continued to screw eachother out for a few seconds, I was getting a huge fire in my belly expecting things to escalate to a fight. I wanted to walk over to him and punch him after the mean way spoke to me right there and then. But he decided to leave the bridge where he was standing and walk away.

I stood by the river just thinking about the bad night of pick up. Thinking to myself ''why do I put myself through this torture? I could be at home now and be happy in my own world'' then I though ughhh that's it im going home and I walked to the train station and ended the night.

I went out in a positive mood, not outcome dependent or expecting anything but after that and after at least about 200 cold approaches I have done over the last year, I just don't believe in myself that im going to get any success at it. It takes a lot of guts to approach strangers and have a conversation with them when you are not drunk. A lot of the approaches I was doing on this night, the women still were not contributing to the conversation even after five minutes. And in all these many approaches I feel like I have heard every excuse in the book tonot move the set forward then and there to even an instant date.

I think that also, there is something in the SPAM. Everyone seems so stuck in their own misery and self image, and its difficult to transfer a fun energy. That approaching strangers for an interaction feels like a strange, erratic act to these people. that its not normal to them. And that no matter how many approaches that i do, its not going to go anywhere, because its strange to them.
I feel in my soul that im not going to get anywhere with it, and i must have done at least 200 cold approaches in the last year.

I was actually going to be compassionate and tell you that experience like this will give you a thicker skin and perhaps it's a projection of their problem.

Then I remember your user name and realised you're the same guy that gets banned from shopping malls and have a lot of anger and frustration in your posts.

If these things are happening to you, I really think it's a fundamental issue. Something that you're not noticing and is harder for us to de-code the issue on a forum.

Going up to a girl and telling them they look attractive isn't what will get you banned from malls, it should be at least making them smile, it also shouldn't alienate a crowd like that. Are you sure you not asking girls to be pregnant with because it was some RSD challenge told you to do so???

What are you actually saying, word for word with these girls? I highly doubt you're doing be traditional "I think you look attractive, my name is Bla"

I think there is more to this story. I understand you're going to get the odd frumpy reaction but all your posts and interaction seems to impode on a nuclear level.
This ^ kinda stuff is very uncalibrated. When you get a harsh reaction like that. Saying this ain't gonna help. Remove yourself from the situation. Also, asking a guy with a negative facial expression isn't going to help either. Again, remove yourself from the situation and take it on the chin.

Let me ask you, have you been phone numbers and dates at the least? If you get 4/5 numbers and 1/2 dates then I would probably say it's more of their issue than yours. If you are just getting a bunch of rejections and flakey phone numbers. Your fundamentals are flawed me thinks.

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Most of the time, i approach usually with something generic.....''hi, you look like a friendly girl.'' or ''hi you have a nice energy'' or ''hi, hows it going'' or ''hi you look great'' sometimes i notice myself putting forward too much energy, asking too many questions. its difficult to analyse it in the heat of the moment when you are jumping from interaction to interaction and keep going. but many of these interactions i would take a pause and give them a chance to say something and it would just go dead and quiet. at least when i went out on Friday.

I got like one number on Friday, it wasn't flaky but i only asked for it because she couldn't go on an instant date. But i screwed it up the next day by being too clingy and pushy. I somewhat deliberately did it anyway because this girl seemed to have a really half hearted vibe throughout the initial interaction, she didn't really chase the conversation, it lasted about 10 minutes and she gave off like a ''ok how do i cut off this guy'' type of vibe. i could tell that she thought me talking to her as a random stranger was strange to her and she kept giving me these like ''oh im bust today because its my only day off'' excuses. so i knew when i got her number that it was going to be like a chasing dynamic for me.

When i spoke to her the next day looking to set up a date she said ''i actually think that you are quite nice, but im so busy and i don't think i will even get to see you by christmas'' ........''quite nice''?? so i immediately decided to cut it off by irritating her.

Also, i feel that im not really in touch with my emotions during these interactions. like i didn't even want a number from this girl, i just didn't want to walk away from an interaction and not try for anything.

Being intense is a common way to freak them out. I find that telling them that "don't worry, I'm not a mugger, but Bla Bla..." And telling them you're in a rush and make it look like you're walking away from them, they call it "body rocking" in PUA language - can take the pressure off and preset the interaction early on.

If I was in this situation I would find someone to film me for a few approaches. So it's much easier to pin point but those things should help a little

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I was being intense? i thought they were just casual openers. i find that it doesent matter what my open is, its how the interaction goes after that where i find problems.
Sometimes when an interaction goes well, and they seem interested and i want to advance things beyond walking and talking, i think....''fuck, ok now how do i escalate verbally and physically''?

You can be talking about hamsters casually but if you have this intense feeling inside you, it will project to the person you're interacting with and repel them.

After the opener I just ask them to join me for a quick coffee, if they comply the conversation kind of becomes bit more organic because of the compliance.

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intense feeling? what are examples of it?
I was going into all interactions, bringing energy, not thinking of what I was saying just saying whatever came into my head.

You obviously aren't building comfort with these people.

There's something a bit "off" about your approach and the way you interact with people. Best case is to get a wing and let them help you be more genuine and authentic and less creepy when you approach, it's almost impossible to do that without being there in real life as there are a LOT of subtle nuances and non-verbal things that would have to be addressed that simply cannot be addressed in this forum