I just got off work at midnight, so I went to my local bar got a beer still in my work clothes just looking around to see if someone notices me and sure enough the hottest chick there is watching me,Im also the oldest guy there at 38, shes maybe 25 we make eye contact ,I keep my eyes on her and I winked ,guess her man seen because he got right by her side and put his arm around her. she just look at him and smiled,so by then I grap another beer and notices she still looking at me and smiling ,so I smile back, boyfriend still there ,finish my beer gave a last smile to her and walked out. What would you have done ?

Nothing man.

Its respect. You give it out and you get it. If another if its clear its another guys girl and he's standing right there. You respect whats his.

We get what we give in this life. We reap what we sow. And respect is my number one.

Many women have told me that there fantasy is for a guy to boldly walk up to them and take them from their boyfriends though. I'm not saying it can't work, but I'm personally just not into that unless I was 100% sure the chick was the one for me. But to ruin a relationship just for sex? I'll pass. Theres lots of sex out there.

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Same thing I was thinking that's why I just walked out...

If it's completely obvious that it's her boyfriend then I wouldn't bother. However, I've noticed a lot of guys ASSUME it's so when it's an Orbiter or a friend (sometimes a gay friend)... and, there are even cases where people have FBs that they go out with (I used to have 4 at the same time).

In any case, the proper tactic, should you want do this instead of just going to open any of the other women, is to open the man first and get him to like you. While talking to the man and teasing the girl once or twice you can continue to assess the situation... then, if it hasn't been mentioned by this point you simply ask, "How do you two know each other?" and say it more to the girl than the guy.

You say it more to the girl because if it's an Orbiter he will try to make it sound like they're together and sometimes the girl doesn't have the heart to deny.

But, when the girl says they aren't together it shows him he's done and should allow this to happen. I've done this dozens and dozens of times.

But, if you want to have success in this Game man, you are going to have to do more than go into a bar, drink beer and make eyes at a girl.

If you aren't talking to 3-4 women per hour (as a newbie) then you aren't playing the Game yet.

Captain Jack

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She just wanted to make you feel jealous.

I was in situations like that and so my friend.

Ignore her as a target.