Hi, I have had this girl in my life whom I really liked. She kept on sending me mixed signals most of the time. I became her friend, got into her life and started being nice to her. She also very nicely welcomed me most of the time. One night at a party, at which she had committed of staying with me and I had planned to get more closer and cozy with her, she started to talk about leaving. I got a bit angry on her and then offended her a bit on via text after she left that her behavior was not good and she should have stayed. Later I confessed her via text that I really like her and i m in love with her. She didnt replied. After a few days, i texted her again how was she doing, and she replied...Then I thought of arranging a date and I asked her out. She started to run away from me. She always replied she is busy doing something else etc. this happened almost 3 times. She is still talking to me nicely via text but denies to meet me. Tell me what should i do and what steps should i take now.

It happened to me too with south african girl (white sexy one).

The girl shows you disinterest. Dont put pressure on her to meet,, that would be a mistake. Be sensitive to what she wants.. but keep working with her level of engagement (e.g. texting or talking on the phone).

What I would do if I was you... is arrange to meet with her and a friend of her or your.
That would take the pressure off of the one to one interaction.

From there you will have to deliver value.

I guess u are not in the attraction phase, but in the comfort one. So focus on sharing interesting stories, experiences and simply give her a good time to show her that the next guy that she is going to meet will be of no match to you.

Forming relationships and maintaining them, is all about delivering value. It doesnt matter what stage u are in, you will need to be worthy for the other person.