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PostPosted: Mon Jun 01, 2015 11:19 am 
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i went to the store, and i approached a girl. japanese stores have everything, so while i was looking at stuff to buy, on the isle next to me they had a make up section, and there was this hb8 (turned out to be like 6.5 cus of her yellow ass teeth).

anyways, i approached her by speaking in japanese. *btw i'll be writing the text in english, it's faster for me to type*

me: hello
her: hi
me: how are you?
her: im fine
me: you're pretty. maybe we should.....
her *pulls out her phone and ignores me, i think she was pretending to have a conversation with someone*

so for the next 3 minutes or so, i stood there just kinda dumb. didn't know what to do, i knew she used this as an escape routine because she was inching away every second, not knowing what to do i just pulled out my phone and pretend i was texting. she kept looking over as to see if i was going to leave soon, and out of no where she just took off, and said "sorry".

i am very self conscious of what people think of me, so this kinda upset me a bit. but in the end i think it was good, because her teeth were hella yellow. i think i would skipped the make-out section with her, which i don't think she woulda liked very much so i probably wouldn't even end up in 3rd base.

p.s i noticed that japanese people in general are very oblivious of the world around them, and pay no attention to what happens around them. you can literally stand next to them and they'll never make eye contact. they also get super engaged on their phone, ipod, or their business. for example, if they are shopping, their whole mentality is to shop and go home. they usually get bothered if someone hits on them. i hope im not breaking too many social rules, but i'm sure some girl out there will enjoy my company....eventually.


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 Post subject: Re: attempt number 2
PostPosted: Fri Jun 05, 2015 6:09 am 
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i went to the store, and i approached a girl. japanese stores have everything, so while i was looking at stuff to buy, on the isle next to me they had a make up section, and there was this hb8 (turned out to be like 6.5 cus of her yellow ass teeth).

anyways, i approached her by speaking in japanese. *btw i'll be writing the text in english, it's faster for me to type*

me: hello
her: hi
me: how are you?
her: im fine
me: you're pretty. maybe we should.....
her *pulls out her phone and ignores me, i think she was pretending to have a conversation with someone*

so for the next 3 minutes or so, i stood there just kinda dumb. didn't know what to do, i knew she used this as an escape routine because she was inching away every second, not knowing what to do i just pulled out my phone and pretend i was texting. she kept looking over as to see if i was going to leave soon, and out of no where she just took off, and said "sorry".

i am very self conscious of what people think of me, so this kinda upset me a bit. but in the end i think it was good, because her teeth were hella yellow. i think i would skipped the make-out section with her, which i don't think she woulda liked very much so i probably wouldn't even end up in 3rd base.

p.s i noticed that japanese people in general are very oblivious of the world around them, and pay no attention to what happens around them. you can literally stand next to them and they'll never make eye contact. they also get super engaged on their phone, ipod, or their business. for example, if they are shopping, their whole mentality is to shop and go home. they usually get bothered if someone hits on them. i hope im not breaking too many social rules, but i'm sure some girl out there will enjoy my company....eventually.
Maybe you didn't display enough value first.... how does she know who you are? Maybe she thinks you may be a weirdo psychopath..... she doesn't know that you're not....


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 Post subject: Re: attempt number 2
PostPosted: Fri Jun 05, 2015 5:44 pm 
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me: you're pretty. maybe we should.....
her *pulls out her phone and ignores me, i think she was pretending to have a conversation with someone*
This is your problem. Instead of plainly saying to her, "Hey you're pretty, maybe we should..." you could have
started with something a bit more simple, like saying, "So what's up with you?" or "I thought you were cute
and just wanted to say Hi...what's up?"

You were rushing into asking her out after you said Hi, which is not going to work for you.

When you approach a girl, make a conversation first. Become a good conversationalist before you
try to ask women out.

Here is an old video of me explaining how to continue the conversation after you start it.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZWwmATJogKY[/youtube]

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