Opening with the intention of being awkward?



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PostPosted: Sun Mar 29, 2015 8:50 am 
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HAs anyone tried to open by being as awkward as possible? Cause from what ive seen when youre trying to be smooth but are in fact awkward, girls are creeped out, but if youre awkward and are tying to be awkward they find it funny.


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PostPosted: Sun Mar 29, 2015 10:08 am 
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Yes, Last night I creeped out a lot of women. Risky creepy

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Just be normal...being normal is better than anything else

no women will want a creepy and awkward guy approaching them...

appear normal in your mannerism and they will reciprocate normally...

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PostPosted: Sun Mar 29, 2015 11:50 am 
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Normal is why most guys don't get laid. Hence why they join the community.

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PostPosted: Tue Mar 31, 2015 2:24 am 
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Being awkward only works if you're awkwardly confident.


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PostPosted: Tue Mar 31, 2015 4:34 am 
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Yes dude, and as long is your mentality is right, it can work wonders. I actually posted just a couple of weeks ago about me and ValleyPlaya getting out and creating challenges to open like shit. Long story short, the night ended with me picking a set of 6 girls at a table for ValleyPlaya to open, and I got to choose what opener he used. Since he's one of my best friends, I did what any dude would do...I made his opener as terrible as possible. His instructions were to go up to this 6-set, have completely shit body language, bad tonality muttering out the words "Hey does anyone here have herpes? Because if so, then we'll be a perfect match."

I watched him make the open and was pretty confident he could pull it off (we go out quite a bit). I'm watching from a distance, and after 20 seconds of him approaching the girls go from the most awkward stares, to at least listening. After 2 minutes they're leaning in. After 5 minutes I decide to go grab a drink and open another set because I figure he'll be a while (I didn't go in to help him since this six-set was the same set VP had challenged me to earlier that night that I purposely bombed at to get warmed up.)

I've actually watched video's of Tyler Durden (Owen) who was trying to show what bad AFC's do when they're trying too hard in the club. It was infield footage of him trying SO hard to fail with girls at the club (really funny to watch too). He was acting out game on these babes that was literally SO painful to watch. However, some of them were actually interested. Like some of them could tell that he was so fucking confident, and that he didn't care what anyone thought of him, and they found that attractive. If you can "get caught" trying to be lame, it actually makes you look cool and confident.

So long story short, if you're new to the game, don't bother TRYING to be awkward (because you already are...sorry). If you've gotten to the point where you're comfortable as can be in social situations, then yes, I encourage you to make the occasional opener as awkward as possible.

Happy sarging dude,

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PostPosted: Thu May 14, 2015 9:19 pm 
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I actually gave a mission to one of my members today, that to deal with his awkwardness, he approaches
with the most awkward scenario possible.

So he came up with an idea to approach women while howl like a lonely wolf.

Yea.

So he approaches a woman or a group of them, and he says,

"Hey guys, I need your opinion on something. I have this project I'm working on, and I'm trying
to immitate a sound the sound of a lonely wolfe. But a lot of ppl tell me it sounds more like a dogg.

Would you hear me out and tell me what you think?"


Then they say yes, and he literally howls in front of them.

The whole point is to make it as awkward as possible, and attack the weirdness.

The irony is, that in majority of cases women just go along with it, and start even giving advice on
how he could do it better.

You don't necessarily need to howl, but you can think of an awkward situation and do it on purpose, until
that awkwardness just goes away.

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PostPosted: Sat May 16, 2015 12:17 pm 
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Let's put it this way, my grandpapy used to say "If you want to get over a fear of yours, face it 100 times".

Granted being awkward on purpose may not get you results, but it sounds to me like a definite cure for that extra awkwardness that holds you back whenever you're approaching.


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