I work in a outddor mall. It was a decent temperature and i had about 10 minutes before work so i decided id try to talk to some girls. I walked around for about 5 minutes and all the girls i saw were either with their Bf's or too young for me. ANyway i walked back still seeing if theres even a decent looking girl i could approach with no luck. So my work is connected to a bakery so i was oging to go in and get something but it was really crowded. Then i saw this really cute mexican girl with her friend. She had curly hair, braces, kinda thick and had a nice ass and big hips. i stood there for a little thinking how to approach. There was a lot of people on either side of her and to get close enough to say something i would have to budge a whole line. Add to it that if i did that and got rejected id feel pretty stupid. i decided to wait in line a little to see if they were going to stay or leave but the line was really slow so i just went to work. i regret not saying anything because DAT ASS!! but i thought about it at work a while and i really dont see a way i couldve approached.

HOw would you have done it? Or is this just one of those situations that you have to pass on?

If you have AA it isn't a bad idea to open indirectly. I wasn't there so I can't tell you what I would do. I've opened chicks working at restaurants and bagel houses before. I just say whatever comes to mind.

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i wasnt even thinking of what to say at this point. I was trying to figure out how to get close enough to them to say something without being rude to everyone else in line.

Alright the situation layout for me seems like this is how I would have approached. I would have looked around and tried to push my way through to the side of her and if I could get there then I know what I would say. You may be budging a whole line, but you should have just got out of the line and tried to get near her since it didn't matter anyway and you left and went to work since you were late. So you weren't really budging because you're no longer in line or want to be. Some individuals there may have gotten upset with you that's why if you made it fine then this is what I would have done....

I would have just tapped her on the shoulder then said "Hey I have to head off to work, but I saw you and immediately I knew you should hang out with me some time, what's your name?" and be sure to look directly into her eyes and have a cocky smile then after she responds with her name you know you're locked in and tell her yours haha

What she says from there is completely up to her...you're open with her about why you're there, you're coming on strong, but not too strong since you're using "hang out" and you're telling her that this is a good idea because you used SHOULD so telling her instead of asking wins points there. Then the tapping on the shoulder is at least making some kind of interaction through touching.

Either she will completely blow you off and then you'll be like Whatever or most likely use the line "That's cool" and when you say it still be smiling don't get some frown just because she rejected your advances...you're still a badass and you walk away as one. If she says that sounds good or something like that then getting her number is what should proceed then you can go to work right after that when you say "Sounds good talk soon"

You could also proceed to tell her you work where you do so she'll know for future reference that is if things proceed well and you get her name then number.

That is how I would approach and instead of going into the line and budging, get out of the line and try to make your way next to her, if you can't because of idiots in the way then don't beat yourself up. It is what it is man. Good luck!

Going direct on one sets when you are short on time is the best way.

Go with something like "I like this (about your appearance, clothing, energy etc., be honest)" then say "I have a couple minutes before I go to work, tell me something cool about yourself so I can see if we should get to know each other better."

Why do you think these guys are these girls boy friends, too? Unless they are holding hands and kissing, you don't know.

What guys? I don't think there were any guys around them

This may be a little rude to everyone else in line but you have to break a few eggs to make an omelet: Real casually could have gone up, tapped her on the shoulder, speaking to her in a manner that assumes you already know her and say you're going to be late for work but you really want a bagel and she seemed friendly and maybe she would add a bagel to her order and you'll pay her for it. Then you're right there with her in line, can chat her up and get her # for later.

I actually like this idea best. Because in essence you're basically telling the truth. You said you wanted to get
something and get back to work, but it was too crowded.

Nice.

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It's always weaksauce to be a robot "hi, stop, a bit random but I think you're cute." Fuck that utter pablum SHIT.

In any situation, there are at least one thousand ways you can open the girl with real shit that is actually going on as opposed to relying on the lazy direct approach male logical bullshit.

Be who you are in the moment. The girls can FEEL if you're a fucking robot or a human. Be a human.

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Indeed indeed