Hello! I am brand new to the forums and looking for advice. I am new to seduction and scoring women at all. Anyways, I made a move on a girl. I am in college and she was in my class. She always sat in front of the class and never really talked with anyone in it. She was usually early to class and would get there first. Well about 4 weeks in, I decided to sit next to her. I did small things so she knew I existed. Well, week six, I finally talked to her after class. I talked a little bit about class and all that then walked with her to the Wednesday lecture we share and we talked there. We shared interests like hunting, both come from country backgrounds, she even had me google her place from my laptop. She seemed engaged and talking. She would smile and chuckle a bit and even felt comfortable. I stayed confident through the whole thing and it seemed like we went away from that happily.

Fast forward to next Wednesday when we had the class again and she changed seats and come in with a guy in a friendly way of course and would look at me for a second then look away and I caught her a couple times. Anyways, a week later I am not sure what to do.... I swore that everything was great but maybe I just totally fucked it up. Either way, I guess my approach was not great.

I kinda like what I know about this girl but is there a way I can salvage this or should I just write this off as total loss? Thank you very much, I appreciate it.

As you say in your screen name you are inexperienced. This is why you are unsure about this one particular girl. You did nothing wrong on the approach (other than waiting six weeks to do so....don't worry, a lot of guys Never do so). Treat your next interactions with her like no big deal. Engage her again when you can. Tell her you have to run to do x "but we should hang out some time." See what she says. In the meantime, intro yourself to more girls. Not the least of which reason being so that if this one doesn't work out, you won't care as much.

So here is an Update. I finally got the chance to talk to her away from Cletus and was able to learn a little more about her. I got her number by talking about studying for a test coming on Friday and we are meeting tomorrow night at a group thing on campus that talks about industry training in the field we are going into. Non the less, im wondering what to do now with the fact that I have some more opportunities to get to know her. How can put myself on top and make myself stand out to her.

ETA: Cletus is still a huge concern. He got her to laughing today and she was going some things that had some physical ID's that she had some physical attraction through him making her laugh.

The way I see it is this:

Isolate --> attract (dont just make small talk) --> KINO (make sure you touch her) --> Flirt (make sure she knows you're not just a friend)

Sounds to me like you're just a friend of hers. You've known her for a while, go for it and don't sit back (remember to DHV). Otherwise It will just drift off.

Sadly, im not a friend as more of a classmate. We barely know each other. Only gotten to talk to her twice now. I am competing with Cletus so making her laugh would be a huge plus especially since I love to laugh as well. Non the less, im sort of in a interesting fight so ill see about isolation but that's hard. Attraction will be hard because of my inexperience. Non the less, im trying to keep a dog in the fight and succeed. I guess i love a challenge.

Good job at least approaching her. I agree that 6 weeks is a little long. In order to not get friendzoned you need to break rapport and escalate. Hang out with her outside of school. Find an activity to do and set a time and place and get her number, then game her as usual.

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Thanks. I guess i really need advice on how to make a girl laugh and really get her going as well with what KINO is. Sorry, im new to the acronyms.

Look up "Conquer Your Campus" by Mark Redman. It's exactly what you need.

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Kino just means touching. I think its pua speak for kinetic energy or something like that.

As for you situation, you aren't in competition. A this point she either likes you or not . you don't need to make her laugh or anything. You are past the approach and introduction stage. You need to invite her to a movie at your place or go somewhere that you two can be alone or active. Pulling the trigger is more important for you than anything else. Don't waste any more time. Even just going for lunch after class is better than the pace you are moving.