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This may sound a little crazy but it just may work. Try saying something like, "Hey! How have you been?"
Don't mean to bust your balls on this but I have a feeling this move might actually not be helping your agenda to sarge those girls on SPAM. "How have you been?", sounds lame because most of those girls probably wouldn't even remember him in the first place. After a long time, interactions with women always seem to start afresh by default.
I'd perhaps rather suggest that you take the pains to notice something unique about the girl you want to sarge, then make a comment or ask a question based on what you noticed. That might work much better...

Doesn't bother me that someone has a difference of opinion, so the balls aren't busted. But, when I contact someone that I haven't talked to in a while I say that and don't have a problem with it. It is usually followed by, "I'm good, how are you?" or something to that nature. And even if they don't remember me, they try to play it off as if they do.