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| akama17 | PostPosted: Tue Nov 25, 2014 6:22 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Tue Oct 07, 2014 5:48 pm Posts: 4 | | How can I approach this girl I see at the gym?
I've only seen her at the gym twice now and find her to be literally the most attractive girl I have ever seen. Walking up to her and just talking with her would be somewhat easy for me if 1. We weren't in the gym and 2. She didn't have headphones in. Any suggestions?
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| JackZero | PostPosted: Tue Nov 25, 2014 7:06 pm | |
| Offline | | The Grand Puba |  | Joined: Mon Feb 24, 2014 11:17 pm Posts: 5962 Location: Los Angeles | | 1. Adapt to your environment and talk to her anyways.
2. When you actually talk to her, tap your index finger to your ear. It's the universal way of telling her that you actually have something to say.
The best way, IMO, to approach a woman in the gym that you know that you are going to see again without seeming too intrusive is to just learn who she is.
You: I see you here all the time and I know you are working out but I just wanted to ask you your name.
Her: My name is xxx.
You: Nice to meet you akama17. I better get back to my workout.
You just set some rapport with her and by understanding that she's there trying to work out and you're not being pushy or too eager. You can greet her again the next time you see her as an acquaintance and not a stranger in the gym. Then after you do all of this, you'll want to start an actual conversation with her and the best time to do that is after she's done working out. The best place to do that is near the gym's exit.
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| enlightenmentdating | PostPosted: Wed Nov 26, 2014 6:28 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Fri Oct 31, 2014 12:58 am Posts: 84 | | Go with a really bold opener in this case.
After she’s done with a set say something like, “I just want you to know that you can’t intimidate me and I’m not the slightest bit impressed..... Is that all you got? really? Come on, I know you, you can do better than that... etc...”
Or you could say, “You’re not done are you?... Seriously? Come on you can do better than that..." _________________ Enlightenment Dating. The world’s #1 Honest Dating Review Site.
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