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So i have found a girl on an online dating site (she is 18, i am 34), i wrote sg about her pictures, I got a smiley as a reply.
Then I said: "its gonna take more than a smile to sweep me off my feet"
Her: "who said i wanna do that?"
What do i say to that?
Like: "previous experiences"? or just reframe and ignore the question?
thx
you negged her when you should have rewarded her - you shouldnt have done that
next time if she is giving you positive feedback reward her
If you perceive "it's gonna take more than a smile to sweep me off my feet" as a reward, then you are already conditioned to view the most minimal of female attention as a reward... It's mostly a cynic comment, which (depending on the context) might as well convey: "I've seen so many guys try and hit on me, I'm not really impressed by the idea of romance anymore."