How to manage the I´m a lesbian Objection?



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PostPosted: Fri Oct 24, 2014 6:16 pm 
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Hi last weekend I approached a girl that was dancing with her friends (all girls) in a nightclub. I realize that maybe my approach wasnt the best and I was rejected or I think so, the thing is , the girl said:

Sorry I´m a lesbian

My question for you guys is:
I really don´t know if she was a lesbian or not and don´t care at this point, what I would ilke to know is what would you have said in that moment, what would be a good way to manage this objection just to insist a little.

I mean if she is a lesbian thats a shame but that doesn´t matter a lot, I would just go back to my friends, but what if she was just rejecting me, what would you say to make her laugh and break that barrier (in the case that she is not a lesbian)?

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"Oh Sweet! Come with me, I'll be your wingman... Hey you! Come here, this girl wants to meet you!"

Call her out on that shit! Make her prove it to you.


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PostPosted: Fri Oct 31, 2014 1:04 am 
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My favorite one for this is you could say something like, “That’s cool I like girls too. I’ll tell you what, you seem way too sweet to be single, and since I’m clearly out of your league, I think we should find you a girlfriend immediately.” Then take her and try and help her find a girlfriend. This works even better if you can pick out ugly girls for her, cause she’s not used to guys doing this to her. Especially if she’s ridiculously hot. Even if she was a lesbian, they make fvcking awesome wingwomen. Use that to your advantage.

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PostPosted: Fri Oct 31, 2014 3:57 am 
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You can also befriend her and go on the prowl with her.


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PostPosted: Tue Nov 04, 2014 10:45 pm 
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What about a trio???


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The question should be how to game properly.

It's just a rejection. Doesn't matter what the content of that rejection is.

So either learn to open better, or if there's room to push through, push through her initial resistance. Some of the funny lines the other guys have replied with are great. Use those. Whatever it is. Rejection is the best time to display high value. Most ppl think it's a terrible thing. It's actually a chance. A chance for you to show her and everyone else in the club how you handle rejection.

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PostPosted: Fri Nov 07, 2014 11:41 pm 
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Listen dude whether she's a lesbian or not doesn't matter. The next time just fuck off and stop trying to be some kind of stupid clown to get attention you needy asshole. She didn't like the look of you so get over it and move on. Why do you guys always feel you HAVE to say something when a girl isn't in the slightest bit interested. You need to wind your stupid egos in, move on and just shut the fuck up or go right on ahead and make even more fools of yourselves. Your choice. Quit whining about it and get on with your fucking life.


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PostPosted: Sat Nov 08, 2014 10:27 am 
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lol Danny55 you have some serious anger problems...

Anyways translation summed it up perfectly. It doesn't matter what the objection is... the fact that it's an objection means you may have messed up somewhere else. So work on your game/openers/whatever rather than a reply. Make notes on what you do in the future it really helps! :D


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PostPosted: Sat Nov 15, 2014 1:57 pm 
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Look, I am quite new to THE GAME, but i know this: if she really doesn't like you (the way you look), then there is basically nothing you can do or say or play. Won't help.
If she thinks that you are somewhat cute/nice/handsome then the GAME can help you reach your goals faster. Game can teach you how to NOT MESS UP. Having 1-2 funny lines memorized may help to get through the approach. But beeing confident is the key (thats where i have problems, like most guys). Then you can get her.

If she thinks you look fu**in' awsome, and you are the best looking guy in the club, than you technically won't be able to mess up, whatever you do (almost), even is she IS a lesbian:)

GAME can help you a little, but do not expect miracles. You simply won't get a 10 girl, if you are a 7. Maybe with money:) Game can help you to get someone on your level. Remember: women ALWAYS choose upwards:(


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