Hey guys -- I am a bit of a newbie here. I am going out tomorrow to approach 5 sets for my first ever day-game... So need some advice + tips before heading out.

I am trying to follow Mystery Method of using false-time constraints and displaying initial lack of interest as a test so... What are the best Indirect Openers to use? And are there any good follow up questions / conversation ideas as I don't want to approach and then not have anything interesting to say, lol!!

Any good Direct Openers as well would be appreciated as I might try one of them out.

Phil

Hi Phil,

Allow me to be the first to tell you that you would do well to dump all that mystery method crap in favour of a more natural approach. To me, a false time constraint is a barefaced lie and if you need to lie to a girl very first thing then you are a jerk and a pussy. Welcome to the real game. Just have fun and do your best. If you suck, just rock it because this shit is hard. Canned material is bullshit too. If you are learning game, then why not start right? Good luck, have a blast. It's supposed to be fun

I've been day-gaming for five years, and I certainly still remember how hard and confusing it was initially. Assuming you might have trouble with approach anxiety and "hooking" sets initially, I would recommend setting your criteria for success lower and celebrating any small victories. Practise bantering with store people, focus on feeling free to express yourself, build a sense of momentum, and similar fundamental things that are going to make approaching significantly easier when you actually want to open and "make it work" with an attractive women.

Unless you don't struggle with the initial nervousness (and fear of the unknown) like I did, and most guys do, in which case half the battle is won and you should trust yourself to open confidently and simply "be yourself". Not in the cliched sense, but being completely genuine about why you're meeting people and leading the interaction forward.

But don't jump the gun, take it step-by-step as a learning process and most importantly have your own fun and "bring the party" in a sense of adventure and excitement. A lot of night game principles also apply to day-game, but obviously there are many environmental differences and conditioning - normalise the situation for you, and it will be normalised for the women too.

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Step by step is right.

So the first step should be to just break the ice. Just make random comments to people (all people) to get the ball rolling. If you can do that you will actually be ahead of most guys who don't have the ability to daygame due to fear.

Theoretically, a canned opener such as "do you know a good place to eat / go dancing / etc around here?" can get a response, then you can pick what interests you from her response and build conversation from there. Also a situational opener, such as observing something interesting to you in the environment and commenting on it, can work. It takes practice to make a technique truly your own though. Also you'll get a variety of responses, from interest to all out agression. Its all part of practice and learning. Try to do this in a way that's fun to you. As you eventualy get more control of the process itll become more fun. As you talk you might do playful little negs. So to reduce it to a few simple tools, its: opener, pick what interests you in her response to comment on, go to whats fun /inspiring to you, playful negs. There are other ways to do it of course.