I was at the lounge/bar tonight and on my way in this really cute girl sitting in a booth with two other people was staring at me all the way until I passed her. As I was leaving she was staring at me again and that's when I thought wow this chick might be into me, made sure there was nothing on my face or out of the ordinary. I walked around a bit with my friends outside and came back, and on my way in she was staring at me the whole time again and that's when I new she was at least interested in me. I thought she was really cute but I didn't know how to approach her because she was with her friends sitting in a booth and I was with mine standing at the bar. What does the average guy do in this situation? I was still way too scared to talk to her because naturally I'm still really shy and I wouldn't know what to say to her friends sitting at the booth with her. How do you talk to girls in this type of environment, are mostly everyone very open to being talked too? It seems like everyone was having a good time but I was still way too scared of embarrassing myself.

Can you explain what a lounge bar is? My understanding of it is it's an upper class, well dressed "bar" area(At least that's what it would be where i'm from). If this is the case then you must make enough to frequent these places. If you do then simply walk up to her and ask if you can buy her a drink.

People say never to buy a chick a drink or anything but if you're well off, in that environment and not going to miss out on a €10 for cocktail or pint then there's no big deal in buying a chick a drink especially if she's checking you out like that. If you don't make much money and aren't in that higher tier of society then it's a bit of a deal.

Women in higher tiers don't go out with the express interest of scoring free drinks from men just because it's free. Cheap women do that but you won't hardly ever find cheap women in places of etiquette. So, in this scenario offering a woman a drink is simply a means of opening her and expressing your interest. If she's interested she will accept. If she's not she will kindly decline. A free drink won't enter the equation as she will be more inclined to accept or reject based on her interest in you.

If you're in a normal bar it's a different case altogether. This is where you'll find cheap women who will want to take advantage of weak men they see as easy prey for free drinks so they will feign interest in you just to get a free drink. Around these women you have to get them to prove themselves and their intent with you, not the other way around. So here you don't buy them a drink, especially if they ask for it.

Anyway, the understanding of buying a chick a drink is out of the way. So, simply walk up to her, don't grin or smile too much, keep a strong frame and posture then just ask her if she wants to go have a drink with you. "I noticed you when I walked in. Do you want to have a drink with me?/Come and have a drink with me." It's important that if she shyly looks to her friends you step in and reassure them and engage them "Don't worry, i'm not going to steal her away from you. *smile*"

I dont know about all the hard work the person above is talkin about but all you have to do is simply lock eyes, put on a smile, then walk up to her, reach your hand out

"Hey i couldnt help but to notice your pretty eyes. How are you doing tonight? My name is..."
And bam! Convo started. Keep eye open for more ioi's. If anything bounce to a more quiet area or false time constraint and say your heading to another venue & number close. Its that simple!!!

Forget the whole buyin a drink game. Save that for your day 2

If you get a girl to stare at you and look at you, one of the best ways to start a convo
with her is to speak about the obvious.

For example, one time I was in this restaurant, and this really hot chick was looking at me.

Actually, here's a picture(s) of her:

https://www.google.com/search?q=tina+ga ... 87#imgdii=_

And I'm not kidding. Later I found out she was kind of famous. But at the time, I had no idea
who she was, I just knew she was hot.

Anyhow, she was looking at me for like 5 minutes constantly, and I decided to step
up and walk over there.

So I stand up, walk over there and say, "Hey I notice you're looking at me for like for
ever, so I just wanted to walk over here and spare you the agony and introduce myself."

She was blown away by it. I showed I had confidence to step up and not B.S her.

But to be honest with you, I did well for 60 seconds, and then I bombed. I became so nervous
and just said, "I gotta go, I'll talk to you soon."

I regret I didn't do well to this day, but hey, at least I went over there.

So in that situation, step up and say the obvious.

In your case, you could have gone there and say "Hey, I notice you're looking at me
for like for ever, so I wanted to come and introduce myself"

And then turn to her friends and say, "Is she always like this...?" in a kidding tone.

So I think you get the point.

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I've been told if you get eye contact with a girl in a bar wink at her see how she reacts. Confidence is always the key!

Smile to her & see if she do smile back.

If she did, use your eye to show her to some place..between where you both sit.

This way you don't need to go all the way to approach her and she get to meet you. Both WIN!

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Girls make prolonged eye contact with guys they find attractive, it's the biggest and most obvious IOI there is.

Approach straight away because if you don't then you go on the wuss pile.