alot of my time I have to meet girls is at the gym, I was wondering what is the best way to approach a girl at the gym, say she is on the treadmill/bike, or by herself in the aerobics room.

From talking to many girls at and away from the gym, one of their main issues with going to the gym is that they will be hit on, and their goal is actually to get a work out to make them look sexier. That being said, some of the girls like being hit on in the gym, but it won't lead anywhere. If you're going to approach a girl at the gym, you've gotta be ready for some heavy shields. Find some threads on the forum here about tearing down defenses if it means that much to you, but you're better off finding a girl in a night club that already goes to the gym, if that's what you're looking for. Best of luck


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here's a few options for you

- join a class....

or

"The Soft Opener" - When she's taking a break go up to her and say "hey when you get a chance can I talk to you for a couple of minutes?"


"The Hard Opener" - Lean over and shut off her machine & start flirting with her.... fair warning... you need to be HIGHLY confident and funny to do this... this could either work in your favor or get you slapped in the face lol.

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Amigo

What worked for me one time in the gym was when I saw this hot girl, that is really doing some hard work, I give her recognition for that and ask her to train with me some time.

First I'll do some eyecontact, but not too smirky, you'll be just one of the 100 guys in the gym that tries to hit on her, and when she has some rest I walk up to her and ask her if she's always so commited to her work-outs like that, she prolly would say that some days she's more dedicated than other days,,, it doesn't matter, tell her that you have that stuff too some times.

Than you could ask her if whenever she trains with a friend, she feels like it's a competetion.. like you feel the urge to win. If she says; no, I don't feel that way. Than you should ask her if that's typically for men to feel.. She'll prolly respond 'yes, men are having more testosterone' or shit like that...

You could say her that when you're with a buddy working out in the gym, you feel like your are battling who's the strongest. Say that you're not really into that and that you just want to hit the gym with somebody who's just chill and has some good vibes around them. Ask if she wants to train with you sometime, exchange numbers!

Be sure not be too hasty and also not to be too much in your head,,
Stay calm and if you want to give her a compliment, make sure it's specific.. chicks dig that.

It worked for me.