Hitting on a girl in a nightclub is normal. But during the day will get you stereotyped immediately as a player.

Unfortunately, society sees pimps/players as sleazy, immoral, creepy and scary.

Furthermore, looking like a hunter will make her flee from "danger". You are a complete stranger, for all she knows you could be a serial rapist.

Therefore, the hunter must feign innocence and normality (among other tactics) to lower her guard/suspicions, make her feel sociall comfortable and slowly gain her trust.

After he gains enough comfort and trust for her to engage in conversation with him, he stabs her in the heart (making her fall in love with him).


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When hitting on unsuspecting victims, fit it in with the crowd.
Look and act like a civilian who's in the middle of doing something.

Do what everyone around you is expected to do.
If you're hitting on girls in a mall, look like you're shopping. Have a few items that you're holding and "going to buy". Be examining items that you're considering to buy.
If you're at a campus, have a school backpack. Know school refrences.


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Before hitting on her, always look like you were in the middle of doing something else.
Like listening to headphones, texting or talking on the phone with someone.
You weren't expecting/planning/searching for girls - you just "accidentaly" noticed her.

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Have a backstory as to what you're doing in the situation.
No, it's not "I came here to meet girls" lol. But more among the lines of "I'm bored while waiting for friends".

Makes sense to some degree, but if you're just out having fun, there's no need to disguise your motive.

IMO trying to fit in is overrated. You should be comfortable in the clothes you wear as well as confident. If you're on a campus and think your daygame improves if you slap on a backpack...

If you go to a club or out to a party you will probably dress up, if you're somewhere at some point during your day and you see someone you want to talk to, just go over there and talk to that person. No need to play dress-up.

Also, I don't go to the mall, or whatever shopping center for that matter, just to pick up girls. You're better of just doing your thing and meeting people along the way. If you're shopping and you meet someone, awesome! If you're pretending to be shopping, that's another story. Same with women, if you're just pretending to be interested they will notice. If you're in 8 shops, but you don't try anything on and don't want to be helped by one of the employees, you will look rather weird I think.

No offence though....

I like this, a lot of good tips. The only thing im not too sure about is looking to fit in. You should stand out (maybe through dress and/or posture). You shouldnt "stick out" and look weird, but you should "stand out"

interesting distinction. stand out vs stick out. noted.

Good points. But you shouldn't pretend or play dress up. Just be in the moment, being yourself, enjoying life while doing your thing, then poof! Suddenly this cute chick comes into your field of vision and you're dying to get to know her.

You make your move, go out there and say, "Hey, I just saw you from over there *points* and the moment I saw you, I think my heart skipped a beat(or whatever)". Be honest with whatever you want to say. All those lines and routines you learned from all those posts, discard it. She wants to be attracted to YOU, and not what you're trying so hard to be.

Don't pretend, just be yourself and half fun. Crash and burn? Who cares, it shouldn't affect you at all. A strong man is defined by his mental strength. Nothing from the outside should ever affect you.

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daygame is my thing. yes looking like you fit in can help, but it's more important to look like you are doing something other than picking up women. that's why dressing the part can help. if you are on a college campus and you look like you are a student or even have business on campus and convey that then your approach will be better accepted. what midget says is more just direct vs indirect game which is a constant debate in the community. as always direct game cuts the to the point but also leads to more rejections. so it's just a preference. personally i don't like rejections and prefer to not mass approach. so i calibrate my direct and indirect game all the time.

my addition to the topic is that with daygame you have to be extremely versatile. you will come across many situations that aren't perfect and can vary with on the amount of time you have. some woman you can pickup and instant date. others you have to stop and number close quickly as they are on their way somewhere. you have to read the situations very fast and act on that then be prepared to change plans quickly if you need to. I'm of course speaking of the best way to game, not just getting a bunch of numbers closes and hope they don't flake.

OP makes a lot of sense. by not dressing up, you know that you look like a creep. When that happens, you feel like a creep and it fucks your game up. So, by having a reason to be there, you have plausible deniability or equality to ASD from chicks and that is a POWERFUL feeling for an AFC turned PUA. Sure, when you're PUA Master = Pokemon Master Ash Ketchum level, ditch this shit but when developing, it helps.

Everything you've written and the way you want dudes to behave is fucking creepy man. Pretending to be something you're not, the false props you carry around with you, your attitude etc. it sucks. You come across as a fucking would be attacker. Get a fucking grip.

That's kind of weird man. You identify yourself as a 'hunter' and then decide to disguise yourself. Seems like an unhealthy mindset to me.