Hi,

I go to night clubs fridays and saturdays, I immediately head for the dance floor, I dont drink I dance a little to get in a fun state of mind and be able to approach or maybe look approachable to women, I try to hit on women by direct approaches but they usually dont work, i tried to even pull some women out of their groups by asking them to come over, but after coming over they would politely refuse and go back to their friends. I dont know what puas do when they go to night clubs, if there is someone consistently pulling women from nightclubs please let me know what you are doing, also if there are some really good sources about night club game or whatever please let me know....

getting really sick of being a lonely 24 year old virgin, if you guys know any other ways where you can approach women then that would be great, please dont say daygame coz that is not a risk I am going to take.

Note- I am actually decent looking and having an athletic body, i dont know what is the problem.

If you open them with ''come here'', be dominant. Vibe with her. Sounds more to me like your verbal game needs to be taken care of.
What do you do in that convo, or are you just there to amp your state up instead of sharing the good time with her.

Try being more indirect with your verbal game but project the man to woman frame through your vibe with your sub-communications. I think RSD Julien has some good content on that so have a look on youtube. Also, just stick with it man. It takes time to get this stuff down. The more you do it, the more confident you'll get and the more positive experiences you'll have.

Hope this helps.

Sly-Mike

I find openers in night clubs are pretty hard to pull off because of the loud music you end up just shouting in her ear if your using verbal try opening at the bar or outside in smoking area or whatever my dancefloor game sucks so thats my go to plan

Thanks everyone, that really helped a lot going to go checkout stuff on verbal game, and also I am becoming a bit more carefree about the result of an opening so thats progress.

@Tchill I was definitely being dominant, but looking back i think i was a bit obviously dominant if you know what i mean, maybe dominance should have been subcommunicated rather than treating her like a child.

Hey Man,

My first suggestion to many guys who are learning to be PUA's as virgins is...

Before you approach; get laid. What I mean is, cold approach is one of the hardest ways to get laid... I think everybody who is approaching but hasn't had sex yet will have a very tough time 'pulling' because it requires a 'killer instinct' and horniness.

If you have never had sex it will be very hard for you to accomplish this.

Try to get some girls online first before you do any of the approaching. Handle it brah. I believe in you,

-Brad Holiday

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You're trying run before you can walk, try bar game 1st. Get some conversations going instead.

The way it works on the dance floor from my experience is, have fun, ignore the lovely ladies and the girls that like you will start to hover near you. These girls are interested. You can just take her hand, spin and makeout, can be as simple as that.

Your virginity is gonna hold you back, try online game. Or even go see a nice classy hooker, no shame in it. Losing your v-plates can be a big boost to your game. Club game is perfect for when you get to the sexual escalation sticking point.

P.s. Why is daygame 'a risk'?

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Thanks, gonna do some bar approaches from now on and do the having fun thing that you said, and about the virginity I think i can pull a fatty with ease, i have seen one or two hovering around me should be easy gonna do that. But i dont see why losing my virginity is so important? in fact that is the thing that is motivating me so much.

Daygame is risky coz they might call the cops and then I am screwed, I have heard being new to the united states this makes this a bigger risk for me than others.

Okay, listen. Look to see who is giving you eye contact, go up to her, put your hand out and say "lets dance." Don't dance by yourself, you will keep going home alone. Good luck.

Daygame is not risky, you're thinking of excuses because you are scared to do it

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