She gave me number and said I can text her only after 9. She said dont call. She visits my job for 2 mins doing drop offs. I don't want to be needy and talk to her every time on person but texting could be futile because she lives with her dude. How am I gonna get her in bed

How are you going to get her in bed? You won't, you already answered yourself. She lives with a guy for crying out loud!

She is probably a whore and it is not worth beating(or worse) you could get from a pissed off dude. Stop being "nice" and stop getting nutted up over 1 woman! You should be in contact with multiple women while you're young.

Eh, simple. Invite her out and bring her back to yours. Damn dude, it's just so simple... Why do you need to ask this question?

If she's willing to text and show interest in you when she lives with another guy she's a piece of shit anyway. If she's not going to be fucking you she's going to be fucking someone else if she isn't already. Don't feel guilty over this it's no one's fault but hers and her boyfriend for being with her in the first place.

Believe it or not a shit load of guys know exactly what their girlfriends are like as do women with their boyfriends. They know their partners are cheating sacks of shit but they turn a blind eye to save their own ego believing shit like "But i'm special. She won't cheat on me because i'm so great." when the reality is a lot of these men and women are pathological cheaters.

Sure, some genuinely don't cheat and just get carried away in spur of the moment -- it happens -- but women who give other guys their numbers and tell them specifically not to do something that might get them caught out by their boyfriends? They have first hand experience with this shit and actively do it.

So, guys, don't be so quick to peg someone down for getting his dick wet with a shameless ho. If it's not him it's going to be someone else. He should have a guilt free conscience in this situation... The only way you could pass judgement on a guy is if he is actively trying to game a loyal girlfriend.