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I'm not saying it could never work, but as a general rule for myself I avoid any opener where at some point I have to admit that I was just bullshitting her so that I could talk to her. I think you're better off either being direct "had to say hello" without any little gimmick, or in some cases just starting up a genuine conversation.
My reason is that I think the whole "I need an excuse so that I can talk to you" thing comes off as very beta.
Then again, I've never tried to stop women rushing off a train, so maybe you have to resort to something like this due to them being in such a rush?
When a girl is standing around or giving me eye contact, i always go direct. This opener is for girls that are to stop. For example if they are walking quickly in front of you, if they are walking and texting, or if they look like they are busy.