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| series19755 | PostPosted: Mon Oct 28, 2013 1:48 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Nov 16, 2011 9:23 am Posts: 16 | | Hi guys need help on approach
theres this girl at the bus stop every morning
what do i say to her??
How do i approach?
What can we talk abouy?
Please help any info will be much appreciated
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| vicparkguy83 | PostPosted: Wed Oct 30, 2013 2:11 am | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Mon Sep 13, 2010 6:05 am Posts: 903 Location: Adelaide, Australia | | "Hmm, guess we're both regulars, Im xyz"
Then just get to know her a bit, have fun, tease her, bit of kino blah blah _________________ It came to me in a drreeeaaammmm
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| Nicgianni1 | PostPosted: Wed Oct 30, 2013 7:35 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Oct 30, 2013 7:24 pm Posts: 13 | | Take a look at her and see how she is dressed. This may give you a clue about what to say. Good speakers have two things going for them. Confidence and they know their audience.
Confidence is something that you can work on, if you need to. Think about what she may be interested in from what she wears or carries. If she carries a computer, then perhaps a professional. If she is dressed like Alice Cooper, then that gives you a hint of personality.
Once you do this, just go for it. You got nothing to lose because you don't have her now anyway.
Good luck!
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| series19755 | PostPosted: Thu Oct 31, 2013 11:56 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Nov 16, 2011 9:23 am Posts: 16 | | Hey guys thanks for the help!! i finally built the courage to approach
i just went for it i asked for some information on the next bus
then joked about how she was going to get on the bus with those heels on..she laughed!!!
we got talking but i have another question what now?
I left the last conversation with il see you around.
How do i go to the next stage of asking for a number or asking her out? Wont it be wierd the guy at the bus stop asking her out for a coffee lol??
Thanks again really appreciated the help!!
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| Nicgianni1 | PostPosted: Thu Oct 31, 2013 2:51 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Oct 30, 2013 7:24 pm Posts: 13 | | Is there a place by the bus stop where you can buy her a coke or just go for a walk. Public place for sure at this point.
Women need to feel secure in their comfort zone at this point. Just ask her about what she does, what does she enjoy doing but don't pry. Simple, friendly conversation. (I take it this is not just a pick up for the night, which uses a different approach.
Women like the friend approach but, don't waste your time being her friend too much, if that is not what you want.
Get to the comfort zone and then follow through after a couple of times for a date where alcohol is involved.
Not a complete drunk. Just a couple drinks to loosen things up.
Good luck man.
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