So, I have a dilemma. I've pretty much perfected non-verbal game to the point where I can pull just off of that pretty much.
However I'm looking to step it up, I can flow and vibe with a girl if she initiates conversation, no problem, great conversation everytime.
I'm having a huge issue with approaching, and starting conversation flow on my own though. I just don't know what to say? Dont know what you ask? and then I feel overwhelmed. It never like that when I am approached though, I can always keep the flow going, ask questions and feel comfortable, escalate etc.

Where is the root of my problem?
What can I do to fix this?
Things to practice when going out?
Conversation ideas?(no canned openers or any lame stuff like that please)

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"it's not lying, it's flirting"- mystery

You never have any problems when girls approach you because you already know that she likes you.

When you spot a really hot girl that you want to approach, you're over thinking everything. Keep in mind that The Game Doesn't Know How Hot She Is. The game is the same if she approaches you or if you approach her. The only difference is your confidence level.

When you approach a girl, it's very rare that a the set will go perfectly, even if you are able to fuck her the same night. If a girl approaches you, she's into you even before you speak, so of course you're much more comfortable.

You need to get more practice approaching and not be outcome dependent. Assume that she's going to be into you. Be your genuine self. If you think of something funny, don't hold back. Say whatever is on your mind. And if it doesn't work out with a certain set, fuck it. It really doesn't matter. Go onto the next set.

Not every girl will be into you, no matter who you are.

As far as openers, keep them simple. The opener is not the most important thing. The most important is what you say and do after the opener.

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"You Can't Score If You Don't Shoot!"