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Try to build more rapport and establish trust. All you're doing, according to your talk, is that you're way much comfortable when you get numbers, thinking that you'll get laid the next day. If you keep doing this, you'll barely do one night stands. Get to know the girl a bit more, trust me, 4-5 hours extra of separate talk won't hurt because this additional time is the reason that will get you the one night stand.
After you get her number, take her out for coffee for example, just a 20-25 minutes coffee/hot chocolate. Don't take too much time at places like these since they get boring. Be the first to cut the conversation and tell her you're supposed to leave and drop her home. Ask her for lunch the other day, eat, talk, build rapport, then go somewhere else that is fun at night. For example you can take her pubbing. If you're too young then go for bowling/a walk, anything that has a suitable environment for the mood to get intense. Finally ask her to go to you're apartment or hers to watch a movie. That's the best I can give you since it works too well.
Good luck and hope it helped
bro if she already has this huge interset in this other guy and all that kind of shit and she doesn't seem to be at all attracted to me is it still worth trying to get her as just a one time hookup? cuz thats really all i want with her. btw we're both in h.s. i just dont want to go through all the routines and sh*t and then tell her i'm interested in her but not in a relationship and if she says no (which im pretty sure most h.s. girls will say) ive just wasted all my time.