Speak your mind about "Neg's" I'd love to hear!

look up how qualification works

a neg is a qualifier that dis-qualifies you as a suitor passively through the frame

''omg I love your hair, if you put it up in a bun it would look perfect''

''nice nails, are they fake?'' ...... ''oh, I like them anyways''

you can make new ones on the spot easy if you just understand how qualification works, you are basically qualifying to something that disqualifies yourself as being romantically interested either immediately or with a disqualifying statement

"passively through the frame"?

the frame is the meaning behind the interaction

so if someone walks up to you and says hello handsome, ''hello handsome'' is the thread, but depending how what way ''hello handsome'' is said will alter the frame of the interaction

that person could be smitten and giving you a love sick compliment
that person could be spiteful and rude and saying it in an extremely sarcastic way
that person could be goofy and the comment has no relation to you at all it was just a silly greating

^ this is how the frame can be changed, it is what the meaning is behind what is going on, a neg can more or less be thought of as negative compliment, but the main idea is to dis-qualify you or her as not romantically involved through the frame

so for example

if you tell a girl, hey your hot, we gotta talk so that I can find someone to hook up with at the end of the night, and she starts talking with you, passively she has accepted the frame that you two are speaking together in order to hook up at the end of the night

more examples of negs, maybe you can see now how this plays into the frame of a qualifier that disqualifies you as hitting on her

''wow I love your shoes (you qualify her), they look comfortable'' (disqualify the statement so that the frame reflects you are not interested in her romantically)

you: saturday night, we will go to Jake's party and we can play some dora the explorer and we will explore a cave together, NOMSAYIN?
her: haha I don't follow
you: that's ok, at least you have a nice body