Hey all, new here.. I had a question concerning interrupting a woman when approaching. In my studies I have learned it is considered masculine to take the lead and interrupt a woman if she is doing something and you wish to talk to her, as opposed to waiting around and lurking to see if she will separate from her group, and then making your move.

As someone who wants to get really good at day game, I go to malls to see if I can find any interesting women, but the issue I run into is many of them are always on their freaking cell phones. They text and walk, their faces glued to that glowing screen, or talk and walk, and it is as though they have this shield around them, blocking out the world - and me. I fear cell phones have become a social disease in the US.

I have some ideas on how to break through this shield; my concern is coming across too rude or socially ungraceful. So far I have thought of playfully taking the phone out of her hand and saying, "Ok that was a nice talk you had with whoever was on the other end, but now you're going to talk to ME." And then I hang up on the person she was talking to, and then play like a keep-away game as she tries to get her phone back, probably getting very upset, but hopefully very attracted to me at the same time. I could try then a teasing game where I have her tell me what her three best qualities are (qualification) for her to get her phone back.. and if i don't like them then I'm keeping her phone.. all in a very joking manner of course. But that's basically extortion, right?

What do you guys think? Is that too extreme? What other things might I try?

Thanks.

Sigh loudly followed by " doesn't any one talk any more, its all facebook and text these days"


Whatever her reply, follow up with, "you're probably a little too shy to phone up a guy you just met at *incert location. But.....you'd probably be brave enough to answer his call said in a cheeky, friendly way?

Honestly, the way to draw her attention might be to qualify her. If you start talking about the topic of cell phones (and she isn't on it), you can say "You know what I like about you? You are actually talking to someone unlike so many people in this *insert name of location here*. I really hate it when people in public just glue themselves to their phone and avoid all sorts of interaction. You're not like that are you?" I"m assuming that she will then say that she isn't because you portrayed it in such a negative light, which is exactly what you want. Because she said that she isn't, she will actually avoid using her phone in public. For more information, just look up pua qualification on youtube.

Thanks guys that was great advice!

my first reaction might be to pretend to be on my phone and bump into one of them and toss out an opener of some sort.

there is no excuse not too.
dude ur a man, you can overcome an inanimate object lol.

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