If a girl gives a flat out direct rejection, which I think is super rare, another good way to take it gracefully is to say: "So you're saying...... There's a chance." With a joking smile. Dumb and dumber line.

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I think it's a poor idea to ever, ever give a harsh rejection line. Remember that old saying that it's not wise to burn a bridge? Apply that rule here. There are some girls who are, indeed, hit on all the time and default to being rude in response. More often than not they're hit on by creeps and weirdos. So when a nice guy (assuming you are) finally does approach them, they're burnt out on being randomly approached. I would not take it personally.

Also, sometimes when girls go out they literally just want to be out with their friend(s). It seems girls are more likely to go out to hang out with one another without the underlying mission to pick up a mate. I think this sounds like the case in your situation with being rejected so quickly. When that happens, I suggest not taking it personally and just moving on. Who knows, maybe later on they'll loosen up and be more approachable. But as much as it may hurt your ego to be so readily rejected, just leave it be and don't make it worse by insulting them back.

Last night I was at a bar going around opening sets. We went up to a three set and there was one colossal BITCH. She truly gave one mega harsh rejection. I can't remember the specifics but we began to qualify them and she butts in and says something along the lines of you know where we're from? Not where people like you are from. We shrugged it off at first as her friends seemed nice but she went on with some more harsh lines like that.

How did we handle it? We just shrugged, said alright, and walked away. Took it in stride. There were other sets there and I n closed another after some textbook qualifying. If one girl doesn't wanna deal just move along man. No need to give her the time of day.

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I know mate, when it comes to pu it makes no sense to rise to it... but on another level, some times i think "fuck pu, im not letting this bitch speak to me like that"... and it does feel good to knock her down a few pegs in front of people... fuck mate i know pu is important but at what level do you act normally socially and not take shit from people all in the name of a meaningless club pull...

if a girl or guy in one of my wider social circles (that i didn't really know) gave me some beef i would embarrass them in front of everyone (not necessarily in a nasty way)... no way would i let it slide and let all my mates think im a push over... or at least joke it away (eg. so your from a dodgy area of town then?)... i care about generally being a popular guy as well as a good pua so fuck letting some chick give me banter...

i also will add that if some guy with 2,000,000 posts wades in now and tells me im pathetic... i dont give a shit...

I know how you feel man. Honestly I had to resist the huge urge to call her a cunt. But I truly believe that the fact that I can shrug it off and smile in her face hurts her more than me flipping out. It shows her how unimportant she is to me. My value is so much greater than hers that I don't need to attack a complete stranger. She's just another pussy on the planet that couldn't make me sweat one bit. She isn't worth half a damn to be able to get me riled up.

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You're right, there isn't a bigger slap in the face then to be just disregarded by the person you're speaking to...

Being flustered by her insolence only feeds her inner bitch. Show her that she doesn't matter. She is just another girl in a bar who just drastically degraded her value to you.

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haha i love that first sentence... Eerie... you've convinced me, in future ill give her a smirk and look back at the people i'm actually conversing with

for me saying something like you said shows that you are interested in them from the begining, and you arent supposed to be so if you dont know them and if you are a man who has the women he likes in his life. For me it's like going direct and you arent supposed to do so if you arent sure they are interested in you. Why dont you open with a humour or a cold read or observational opener, that should show you are a guy who just wants to have fun or socialize or who just noticed something about them, and they cant reject you because you arent showing you are interested in them.

Kasabi is 100% correct!

I will add that a lot of PUA walk into each set with an unrealistic expectation. That expectation is "entitlement"!

For example. A PUA tells himself "I am going to say (opener) and the girls will all find it amusing and be totally into me". But when the girls look at you like you're an idiot (bitch shield) you feel dejected and thus lash out because of your entitlement mindset. This then results in actual rejection...And again your entitlement mindset causes you to blame the girls!

My point is that if you fail to get positive results from approaches 99% of the time it is something that you did or didn't do that caused the negative result. You are not entitled to shit so get over yourselves and stop being outcome depenedent. Girls no matter how hott they are are still just people who are no different than anyone else, you place them on the pedistal when you objectify them!

Peace...

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