Ok so im johnny, im 22 yrs old good at opening and approaching. Decent at body language. Now i want to conciously understand what i am doing when i am successful with women. I'm good with opening, and am real comfortable at being sensual and sexuality when i get the cue that they are into me. I need help with concious attraction and rapport. I'm good with opening, cocky funny, sexuality. Here's how my first approach went with a girl who worked at hooters i opened up at midnight at sheets gas station saturday night. Ps. She had a dress on and was about to go out, no she didn't have her work clothes on.

I saw her and without think i open her up in less than 3 seconds.
Me: (Smile) Hi, i'm actually bout to leave. But i wanted to say hello.
Me: Hi i'm johnny. Whats your name?
Her: Sarah
Me: What are you up to tonight?
Her: Just got off work.
Me: Where do you work?
Her: Hooters, yeah it was packed because of some huge fight tonight.
Me: Oh you must be talking about that mayweather fight , awesome i love boxing.
Me: Your a waitress right?
Her: Yes
Me: Well i'd probably only give you like 50cents but since your cute, i might add a couple bucks.
Her/me : We both laugh
Me: Listen , i only came over because your cute. Give me your number and we'll hangout sometime.
Her: Smiles blushes and says i have a boyfriend.
Me: Ok, well listen there is show going on next weekend at this bar. You should come, and you can even bring your boyfriend along.
Me: I smile at her am confident and ask her have you ever been there before?
Her: Yes.
Me: Ok i'll see you there next weekend. Nice meeting you.
Her: Ok, you too:)

I've new to this but a couple things just clicked. Wow it really does open your eyes when you actually review the whole conversation. I can see where i might have made some mistakes and by not getting her number to meet up with her. Next weekend. She was smiling and we were both enjoying the conversation. Funny thing is another guy after me tried hitting on her. SHE SHOT HIM DOWN. I also noticed she was not into the interraction as much as she was with me. I just went and waited in line with my boy and just ignored the interaction and left. I felt real solid and confident though. Just that 3 second rule and the Just go for it rule freed my mine from thinking what might happen and what might not. Awesome.

Any opinions, suggestions, ideas would be appreciated. I am noticing more and more especially from looking at my past, that i have good body language, and am good at sensuality but i'm not so sharp at the cues i need to be looking for to realize when women are really into me. I've kinda went all on instinct , body language, and confidence in the past. I want to sharpen up my game and mental cues to realize when all this happens. So i can be sharp on my actions.

I also noticed I was good at being non reactive when she said she had a boyfriend. I think i should have kept talking to her and teasing her and then later on tried to get her number if not at the end to meet up with her next weekend was another opportunity aswell i think.

thats it bro, its all about not thinking. Do what feels good and the good feelings you generate from doing that will transfer onto her. the good feelings you had were because you were what we call "in state". You should do whatever you can when you want to meet women to get in state -- that is, that positive, euphoric feeling you get where you are not needy, not seeking approval, but only doing what feels good to you. It is this attitude that women find intensely attractive.

Awesome , thanks for the comment brother. Yeah i was just going with it, remembering simple structure and just being myself. Not using any lines. Just the fact that i went for it, had me feeling great after that even though i didn't get her number i looked at it as a very positive thing i went after what i wanted and learned somthing new.