I was wondering that. Whenever I am in a subway there are lots of women there, but they always seem busy with their phones, ipad or books or listening to music from their headphones? Isn't that their shield as well? How do I get rid of those shields?

Observe. Notice that they're on the phone.

Disrupt. Say hello.

Notify. Tell them you observed that she's on the phone and ask her why she does it. Out of boredom? To keep herself seemingly occupied? To use as a shield?


People like to be noticed. Even if your conclusions are wrong, being observant puts people in a generally need-fulfilling frame. People don't like to feel judged and they will rationalize their actions.

WOMEN...(wait for it)...ARE PEOPLE.

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Notice girl on the phone. "Is that important or can you call them back?"
Works wonders.

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Yes. I was in NYC for really my first time 2 weeks ago. I was traveling back to my friends apartment alone. I was buzzed slightly and I opened these two chicks across from me basically asking them for directions. They were turkish (and I love my foreigners). I continued to chat them up and coincidentally the one girl lived just 4 blocks away from where I was headed so she suggested she walked me back. I obliged. However, nothing happened that night just K-Closed. I got her number and we had set up to meet the next night but I met a Dominican the next day and that was the end of the Turkish girl.

When the escort proposal comes into play, make them hold your hand or grab your arm as kino initiation. Escalate from there.

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Oh, we were. I was quite playful with her. I had lined her up for my 2nd Day there after building that rapport.