I have been to clubs and I found that it is just too noisy. It is hard for me to run any opener, this is because let us say if I approach a 3 person set, when I speak to one person, the other 2 person is unable to hear me clearly. This issue still exist even if I speak loudly. I have tried other clubs in my country, but the volume of the music in a club is usually very loud.

Any solutions? Or anything that I can do? Thanks.

1 idea is to open your target and get your girl to intro you to her freinds. They can't hear you anyway to why not. Or you can just go caveman. Or what I do is just no go to loud clubs.

Hello Heinseberg,

In noisy environments such as clubs and parties, use non-verbal openers. The game pattern in clubs is very different from street sarging where your opener has to be more captivating to actually stop the person from moving.

In clubs, pay extra attention body language and proximity; if she's 'purposefully' standing close to you, or if she 'invades' your private zone, she's basically asking you to open her; you don't have to say anything. All you have to do is open her by simply touching her hair, or grab her hands to 'see her rings'. When she notices you say something along the lines:

'You have really soft hair, but you could improve on your dressing' or 'Those are really interesting rings, which is your favourite?' You obviously open with a smile. If you do something like this with a serious face you will come as a serial killer.

My point is, in venues where the environment doesn't favour verbal interaction, behaviour (how you stand and interact with other people), body language and kino is the key.

Hope this helps.

Best,

Notrya

Nice post, I've been meaning to bring up this question myself

Knowing how to dancein a great mute opener, but that's only IF you have that skill. You don't even have to have MUCH skill, provided the dancefloor has a good crowd. Truthfully, a lot o women think it's "cute" when a guy can't dance properly.

Drag her some place you CAN talk. Let her talk first, and be all like "I want to hear what you're saying, but this bass is deafening. Is there some place else so I can hear you?"

..something along those lines. She'll think you actually want to listen to her inane babble, and YOU llok like the sensitive listener. NExt thing you know, back-alley handjob. For starters.

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