Ok so I know it's bad PUA manners to have long term crushes, but hear me out. An HB8/9 lives about 5 houses away from me and I've been wanting to open for some time. I happen to know one guy that goes to my school on the other side of the street (we're just acquaintances, we don't hang out) and he told me this girl's name. She lives on the other side of the entrance to the neighborhood so there is virtually no reason to go in that general direction. My family isn't very "neighborly" so we only know the neighbors right next to us. I have almost no idea how to open her. However, an opportunity has risen. By coincidence, I have noticed that she sometimes walks out of the neighborhood on weekends (maybe to visit a friend or go to the nearby shopping center). I need to pass out flyers for my volleyball team fundraising event , so I was hoping that I could catch her outside her house that way. The biggest problem with this plan is that I'm planning too much! I feel like this should be spontaneous, not carefully measured, and I certainly don't want to be caught with the stalker-like persona about me.

She LOVES Taylor Swift. (I saw her facebook. yes I know, bad PUA-ing)
I have never used the direct opener (yet).
She does NOT go to my school
I'm a high school senior

How can I find an approach opportunity?
Should I be making my own opportunity and how?
Should I facebook friend her and try online game?

Thanks all
-mohya

also are we allowed to bump?

You just have to approach her when you see her. Simple as that. This is why its not good to think too much about one particular girl until you get a little better at pick up. The reason the whole idea of not thinking about one particular girl ever came about is not because its always bad to have your eye on one girl, its that its bad when you aren't that good at pick up. If you're not good at pick up, its very easy to fuck shit up, so there is no point obsessing about not fucking shit up, because a decent amount of the time you are GOING to fuck shit up. But that's fine. Its all part of the learning process. And I'm sure you've heard this before, but fucking shit up is good, because you learn a lot of valuable lessons that way. The fact of the matter is that if you're still in the earlier stages of learning then you have to accept the idea of fucking shit up (actually you have to accept that idea even when you get better).

So go practice some approaches and the just approach her when you see her. Thats all you can do.

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