So recently I have been day gaming a lot more and thought I would share an insight and a question. The most success I have had comes when I get into a situation where I ask a girl a question that indicates I am clearly not into her. For example, at a mall I may ask a hot sales associate where something is but not give them much attention, really concentrate on what i am looking for. I do not try to impress. After a while if they come back over or I ask another question I still act like I am in my own little world. Then I break the tension by using humor and catching them off guard. THey instantly bite. However if I lead off with humor I believe I look like I am trying too hard (even though I naturally joke around even when not trying to impress). So my observation is that by not showing any attraction but then breaking the tension with humor, success becomes much easier.

My question comes from an experience I repeatedly have. Often times when I am in a group with a few attractive girls I can be very funny. Today I was at work and went to lunch with a few girls who work with me that I just met and had both girls crying from laughter. While we all had a good time, I want to know if this is ki
lling the sexual tension too much. Like maybe they had such a good time they want me just as a friend, not as a sexual interest. I try to be serious too and tell stories DHV etc. but does humor kill the tension? Let me know your thoughts!

The humor doesn't really matter to an extent. In fact, its almost always a good thing. I don't know what you mean by "tension" because that's not really part of the pick up model for seduction. I think you mean "attraction". But attraction is something additional to humor. So it's not that you are being too funny or anything like that. It's more likely that you aren't taking time to actually build attraction because you are too busy telling jokes and amusing everyone like a clown in a circus.

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