| So Here by personal experience different types of opener.
There is 4 situations possible in daygame or nightgame.
1-You are walking directly to a girl and open her.
2-You are in the middle of something or you are going somewhere, then you interrupt or she interrupt you and you open her.
3-You and her are both in a situation or witness a situation and its a total inattentionnal coincidance.
4-You are introduce by someone to her.
Ofcurse the last option is the best.
So the first option you need to open her directly unless you are asking her something but most of the time if you do indirect its weird. It is the one with most tention and most attraction, however, it is high risk high reward situation. Ideally you man up and use direct. Transition will be very easy from there on, since attraction is already made, you only need to ask her simple question and go for qualification.
I.E.:
you walk down the street, a girl catch your eyes. you run up to her and tell her that.
The second option can be either direct or indirect. Depending on what you are doing, the opener usually can includ what you are doing. Usually can be opinion, indirect and compliments.
I.E.:
You are at the bar waiting for your drink, you can either ask her for her drinks to help you with a better choice, compliment/comment on her, ask her about the club music etc...
Attraction is not there but people are usually friendly to you if you are not mean. You can use simple questions once again but people will not stay there to listen if its not relevent/interesting.
Third one is very situational, people are more friendly with you simply because you guys are sharing an experience together.
I.E.: You are waiting in line for a club, people are taking pictures and you help them or you help someone out or a fight happen.
In those special case, its more based on observation then opener itself. Usually the opener itself is a transition and will give you alot of comfort and you can easily introduce yourself. From there is very easy to be put on the friendzone.
the last one is easy to arrange a date, every type of transition will be good, actually most couple are meet that way.
In order to obtain more introduction Open, you will need to build a very big entourage.
So here is a few tips for opener:
1-Always observe before going.
2-Once you are going to open, assume and be congruence with yourself and dont back off.
3-Go crazy first, Calibrate after.
4-Be confidant Not mean.
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