ok honestly, i think using routines and openers and all that shit is great, but i would rather like to rely on myself in order to attract a women. And this is probably because im still in highschool and my goal is to only get this girl i like to be my girlfriend. I just want to improve my inner self and my game. I think putting yourself out as someone you are not is not a truthful and righteous way to live, by improving yourself, you will and can spread out your love for life into the person you are going for. this is what i want to achieve. i hope some people out there can understand where im coming from, thanks.