Question: started swimming last week. Lot of girls there. As I was talking to one of them yesterday it hit me that places like à swimmingpool take à different kind of game. There are lost of girls, but it's not that crowded, so you if you game more than one of them, chances are you're closing none of them because they see what you're doing. Any thoughts on how to go about? Just stick with one (like I did yesterday) or is there some other way?

Yes, hotties love water! Great place to find 8s and 9s. I screwed up my last pool set so badly. I was in the water and they were sitting on the chairs and I was totally incongruous and low energy with my open, which was a lame opinion opener about being in a wedding. Probably came off as creepy too. The girls weren't mean about it but they got up and went to the otherside of the pool and snuck out before I even had a chance to say bye to them.

As far as what to do right, I'd say that if you can play up the social butterfly angle and just act like a friendly guy who talks to everyone it won't turn the girls off. I've seen plenty of old dudes who hang at the pool all day long who talk to everyone, guys and girls, and I don't think it matters who sees what.

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Thats why I always go situational. Always. Save all that bullshit for later, when you run out of things to say. About being à social butterfly, I think you are right. I already am doing that, talking to the old Supermen that swim a hundred Laps in 45 minutes and so on... Probably THE reason why girls approach me a lot. I will keep this in mind.

[quote="DonLeo"]Thats why I always go situational. Always. Save all that bullshit for later, when you run out of things to say. About being à social butterfly, I think you are right. I already am doing that, talking to the old Supermen that swim a hundred Laps in 45 minutes and so on... Probably THE reason why girls approach me a lot. I will keep this in mind.[/quote]

I didn't quite understand that. You're saying that the reason that girls approach you a lot is because you chat up who?