Hey lads I finally made my first approach last Saturday, but it wasn't much of a bit. Well I've walked to the girl and told her she looks familiar to me (as I saw her few times on Facebook, talked online but never face to face). So then I've asked if she came alone to the club or with her friends, she presented me one of her friends which I did some handshake kino, then introduced my shy wingman to the girls, stayed for a few more moments, but then told her I gotta return to my friends.
So basically I run out of subjects to speak with a girl, after opener and introduction I often freeze and I have no clue what to talk about.
I have gained some nice confidence after Saturday so I think if I will just lose it again, I will push myself infront of the girl so then I'll talk.
What are your routines when going in club? Can you share some secrets of what you talking/doing? Like, I'd need a basic conversation you had with a girl from opener to # close (I prefer this to jog firstly with). I know eye contact and kino is a must.
PS: Which openers are better? Opinion or lines?

I can give you literally 1 million lines, of things you can use and say in any situation. But lines will not help you. Take it from me, all the lines in the world will not get you the girl. Next time go for a kiss on the cheek instead of the hand shake because she is a mutual friend and not a stranger, you'll get more kino from that point.

Only for strangers do you shake hands because if you try and kiss a stranger on the cheek she will probably tell you to get away from her.

Just a side tip, when you shake a woman's hand, Make sure your hand is on top because when you shake a girls hand like you would a guys its more of a business type handshake and if her hand is on top and yours underneath then you're basically gonna get friend zoned, her bitch to be brief. Dont ask why or how, just take my word for it and do it.

Anyways i digress, in nightclub or any party situation have 2 drinks maximum to calm you down. Trust me there is always something in a mans mind that he can say. Normally we are too scared to say it, you don't need lines you don't need openers. Approach any girl anywhere you want extend your hand (yours on top) and say " Hi im (your name). A girl will never refuse a handshake and she will normally introduce herself. If you ask for her name and she says "why" you reply "why....why not". From there lines will naturally come up in your head, just say it. There is always something to say. People who have nothing to say have something in their heads that they are too scared to say.

I doubt you had nothing, rarely is there an awkward silence in a club. Take her hand and go dance with her. If you dont know how tell her to teach you, and if she doesnt know how then you tell her that you will teach her. Make sure you hold her hand though when you're asking otherwise she wont comply. (to get a rough idea, watch 'THE UGLY TRUTH' see how Gerard Butler asks her to dance, he grabs her hands and persuades her). Apply that to similar situations but not exactly the same way he did.

Other than that mate, all i can say is be a man, be serious yet have a sense of humor. you think 1 girl got you confident, approach hundreds over your lifetime and see if you feel the same. Go through this life without being a unconfident shit. And trust me, she will see you for what you are, a man. Don't be afraid, don't think your not good enough. Think to yourself, im a fucking ALPHA MALE and i will make this bitch and any other mine.

Be resilient and smart in all your situations as well and trust me, cunt will follow you wherever you go.

Now go enjoy yourself chump. Make me and all the APLHA males proud.

Haha, that's a nice heads up pal, thanks. There's no better motivation than having sex with a HB.
I usually talk really much with the girls I know, make them laugh and shit, but I don't know, talking the same bullshit to a new girl is basically harder for me because I just can't think of something to get her interested.