Hey fellow PUA's:

Yesterday i conquered approach anxiety totally because i have opened about 15-20 sets. All i did was give a compliment and move on (it was in a night club)

But now i need good openers with follow-ups so that i can actually game some women. Any1 has good openers which are field test approved?

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"Hey what's up?"

"Hey how are you?"

"Hey I want to talk to you, come here!"

"Hey - insert compliment - "

"Hi"

"Hello"

"What's up?"


All great fucking openers, field tested hundreds of times

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I mostly do daygame, and as you know night game and daygame are two totally different beasts. In the daytime if I see an hub and I decide to target them, if I can't think of anything to say I simply move in, ask to tell them something quickly, and give them a compliment. I usually say I think they are really pretty. I follow that up immediately with a justification that is funny. The humor aspect of the opener I use is crucial. They will want to talk more if you can do that. An example happened to me the other day. I saw a two set, and one of the girls was an hb, and thus my target. I crossed the food court, went up to her, and said "Excuse me, can I tell you something quickly? I just want you to know that you look very pretty.". That was the opener. The funny follow up line was something like "for me to look hot I have to wear this sexy deep v neck, but for you two (and yes I talked to the other girl here to prevent jealousy) you can just wear normal clothes and still look beautiful." then I did the three snaps thing. They loved it and started laughing. At that point I was in and the game was on.

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the only point of the opener is basically to start a conversation with the girl.. that it but when i first started, i used this opener all the time...

1) excuse me but do drunk i loves you count... hb: says something, then you say because a buddy of mine got really drunk the other day and told a girl he's been dating , that he loved her,, would you take something like that seriously

your gonna want to transition after that but since your new just open
and try to stay in set as long as possible.. you wanna build up those improv skills

Well, i usually said to the girls:
ME: Hey i just walked by and wanted to say that you look very pretty tonight.
HER: Oh thank you (sometimes: yeah you look pretty too )
ME: Does that make ur night feel good ?
HER: Yeah it actually does? / Uhm... maybe
ME: Ok, that's all i wanted to say.

But i just did it to conquer the AA. In daygame i'm thinking about showing DHV by guessing her body language.
YEAH that's right. Because i just bought a book: Body language from James Borg. Perhaps i can just tell her about her body language, what message it sends out to show DHV and that i understand perhaps how she feels. It also tells about the eye movements (NLP).

- Right and down: she tries to access feelings
- Left and down: they are talking to themselves (in the mind offcourse)
- Upwards and left : she's trying to visualise something
- Upwards and right : she's imagening something (maybe even about kissing you haha)
- Across the left : trying to remember sounds
- Across the right : trying to reconstruct sounds

I'd thought i share this information with you guys since eye-connection is very important in every (basic) conversation.

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