New to the game...



Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 14 guests
Post new topic Reply to topic   Board index » Tools & Techniques of Game: Meeting, Attracting and Seducing Women » Approaching and Opening




Author Message
 Post subject: New to the game...
PostPosted: Thu Jul 19, 2012 6:37 pm 
Offline
New to MPUA Forum

Joined: Thu Jul 19, 2012 6:34 pm
Posts: 6
Hey guys, first of all - this is my first post so nice to be here! Secondly, to the point, I'm pretty new to the game and am going out tomorrow night (UK) to try to pick up women, which is a first as previous times I've went out and its just happened rather than me actively trying, but I figure that that's not working out so great anymore so I'll try something new haha - I was wondering if anyone could give a total newbie some advice? Particularly with opening, I think this is where I need help the most - I can usually keep a convo flowing, I think

Thanks!


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Thu Jul 19, 2012 7:26 pm 
Offline
PUA Forum Leader
User avatar

Joined: Sun Jan 24, 2010 5:46 pm
Posts: 880
Location: Newcastle
Work on your inner game. You're not "going out tomorrow to TRY and pick up girls," you ARE going out tomorrow to pick up girls.

"Try" implies failure. Just remember it's a numbers game until your game is like a superpower :D


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Thu Jul 19, 2012 7:39 pm 
Offline
New to MPUA Forum

Joined: Thu Jul 19, 2012 6:34 pm
Posts: 6
Thanks man, confidence - got it - I AM going out to pick up girls haha. Any tips for opening?


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Thu Jul 19, 2012 8:14 pm 
Offline
PUA Forum Leader
User avatar

Joined: Sun Jan 24, 2010 5:46 pm
Posts: 880
Location: Newcastle
Opinion opener is best for newbies, "Hi I need a female opinion on something" then ask the question straight after so she hasn't time for an autopilot response.

The opinion has to be something that a female is best able to answer that you couldn't ask you buddies. I used to use "Does this shirt go with these trousers?" if she asks why say it's because a fair few women have looked you up and down and you wondered what was going on. This implies preselection. If the girl likes you she will keep the conversation going.


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Thu Jul 19, 2012 8:27 pm 
Offline
New to MPUA Forum

Joined: Thu Jul 19, 2012 6:34 pm
Posts: 6
Perfect man! Thanks again, so indirect openers rather than direct?


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Thu Jul 19, 2012 9:17 pm 
Offline
MPUA Forum Enthusiast

Joined: Sat Jul 14, 2012 9:17 am
Posts: 34
I'm fairly new as well. Do you suggest that we start with a time constraint, or do we just get to the question straight up?


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Thu Jul 19, 2012 9:32 pm 
Offline
PUA Forum Leader
User avatar

Joined: Sun Jan 24, 2010 5:46 pm
Posts: 880
Location: Newcastle
Depends on your confidence level. If you have recieved IOI's then straight over direct within 3 seconds. The opinion opener is an indirect method. I only bother with time constraints if the girl is in a 3 set+ as her friends might not want you there so you need to get under the radar. Don't wait for the perfect moment to approach as you will rationalise yourself out of the approach or as my friend puts it "some other c**t will move in"


Top
   
Display posts from previous:  Sort by  
Post new topic  Reply to topic  [ 7 posts ] 

All times are UTC


You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot post attachments in this forum

Search for:
Jump to:  

Can we be honest?

We want your email address. Let me send you the best seduction techniques ever devised... because they are really good.
close-link