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| Lew Ashby | PostPosted: Tue Jul 17, 2012 8:05 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Mon May 07, 2012 4:50 pm Posts: 8 | | I've got a problem with my club-game. When i'm at a bar or somewhere where the music isn't too loud and you can have a convo my game is pretty tight. Mostly I approach a set with an opinion opener, give my target some negs, and after a few minutes i'll say to the obstacles that i will borrow their friend for a minute and from that moment it's on. But in Amsterdam, where i live, most clubs don't have any social spots. They've only got a dancefloor and really loud music what makes it difficult to have a convo with the WHOLE group. Mostly i'll get some eye contact, have a talk and kiss-close the girl, but I can't just stand the whole night waiting for eye contact, its pathetic.
Any advice?
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| Rockstar815 | PostPosted: Tue Jul 17, 2012 8:33 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Tue May 31, 2011 10:17 am Posts: 61 | | I know how you feel dude loud clubs can be tough... but they can be easy too you just have to tailor your game to work in that situation.
For example whenever im in a loud club i use mainly non verbal techniques what i mean by that is that i barely talk to any girls i simply get them attracted to me with as little talking as possible. because when you talk to much the girls constantly yelling "WHAT???" and its hard to hear what she says and that can actually work against you.
So one of the ways ill do it is this: If im walking around in the club ill accidentally bump into a girl or brush my hand against hers, this way she looks at me and i can see if shes interested from there i can start a SMALL convo (emphasis on small) but when your talking you want to get as close to her as possible to speak so what i mean is lean in like your gonna kiss her then turn to her ear place your hand on her lower back and then speak into her ear. this will make sexual tension be easy
one other way is to wave at a girl. if she looks at you smile and wave. then you know if shes interested or not so you can go over and talk to her. One of the greatest things i like to do while in a loud club is get eye contact hold it and do a kind of sexy smile. this will get her to smile or laugh or blush then keep your eye contact and without hesitation walk over there the sexiest way possible and say in a deep sexy tone "You know you cant look at me like that and not come over and talk to me"
Works like a charm every time ive done it. basically keep the conversation low and if you can move to a different venue or n-close and set up a hang out for later. Hope I helped if you have any other questions dont hesitate to ask. _________________ "Ever notice how you come across somebody once in a while you shouldn’t have fu***d with? That’s me." — Clint Eastwood
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