Hey guys

Well there was this girl I met a few weeks back at a club and we spoke for a bit, my friend was with me and she happened to know him from back in high school.

Fast forward to now I see her again at this movie social event, we start talking...my opener went something along the lines of:

Me: Hey I remember seeing you a few weeks back. Your that girl who left before the party even started.
Her: Really? Oh yeah but I don't remember much.
Me: Your a bit slow in the head aren't you? Like a goldfish that forgets things quickly.
Her: Yeah I am a bit slow aren't I?
Me: Nah just joking.

So that got the convo going, I found out there's this movie she wants to watch, and that she likes pets - she likes cats. Another part of the convo went like this:

Her: So you like pets?
Me: Yeah some pets.
Her: Which one?
Me: Goldfish...they never seem to get bored with what I do and just stay there because they don't know what they are doing. Kind of like you.
Her: *laughs*

So the convo continues and she starts biting her lips. It was about 5 minutes before the movie started, we spoke for about 40 minutes, and this other guy came in between us saying the movie has begun lets go.

I saw her at the food counter and we had a small chat and noticed she was waiting for me even after I spilled my drink and was busy cleaning up.

Anyways we spoke for a bit more after the movie and like last time, she left early.

I had my phone switched off as it was running low on battery...I totally forgot about this and was passing my phone to her to tell her to give me her number. The phone was dead

She smiled and basically said just message me online.

I think I partially screwed up. I could have held her hand at the bar and asked her to come to a place more quieter but forget about that.

So any ideas on what my message should be like and if I screwed up? Lol. There was no kino.

PS: I should add this 'event' is one of those social events that are organized my different 'interest/hobby' groups and you can message or private email someone.

Well I messaged her online and got a reply. She gave me her number

LoL the thing is I have never actually gone out with a girl before and this is kind of making my mind race...I only got into this whole PUA gaming scene at the start of this year when I made friends with a PUA...I'll text her after a day and see how she's going.

At this stage I am unsure on what I want or what my move should be next but some friends are telling me to take her out for dinner.

In her message back she said "Here's my number...If you wanna text me sometime ".

You guys reckon this means she likes me or is curious??

I'd pass from the dinner thing. I'd opt for activities things. Like Dave n buster, pool, bowling etc. Something that is pretty much built in fun already. Less focus on you and it allows you to interact in a fun way.

As far as she liking you. Take her out and see.

Found out from reasons that don't need to be mentioned that this girl happens to be financially unstable and maybe emotionally as well.

I don't want to pursue a relationship with these two traits...personally I thought perhaps one reason she kept some touch with me is because I have a stable job and own my own place whereas she does not have neither.

So now I've pretty much decided to avoid contact with this girl - better do it now than get screwed later.