Hey guys so i made this to cover openers completely in detail for any location or situation. My main focus will be one-sets as i find these are what most guys tend to go for when they start out. Please leave feedback or anything you think should be added. If you want more please let me know. Alright lets get started!
There are two types of openers: DIRECT & INDIRECT
Direct is when you show interest right off the bat to a girl(usually with a compliment). These are a bit risky but a lot of girls react very positive to this. The main reason why they tend to be risky is because you are immediately displaying where you stand as far as your feelings for her. some girls use this as a chance to play games. If she seems uninterested or is teasing you in disrespectful ways(PLAYING GAMES) then immediately pull attention away or switch to indirect. Also do not confuse being direct with being sold on a girl right away. After you transition from direct you should always try to learn more about her before you show genuine interest about who she is as a person.
Examples of Direct:
*"Excuse me i think you are absolutely beautiful, stunning, gorgeous(whatever word feels most comfortable)"
*If shes out shopping in the mall:"Excuse me i know it can be dangerous to get in the way of a woman and her shopping but i HAD to say something before i left(Notice the emphasis on the word HAD)
Indirect is when you say something where the focus is not on the girl. basically that means you are not making a comment directly about her or you are not directly showing interest. I actually prefer indirect because it is way harder to be rejected and if a girl seems to not be enjoying it you can immediately transition to direct. Indirect usually is more difficult to pull off but in the end can payoff. What i love about indirect the most is there is a wide variety of things you can say. It is literally almost endless with the amount of openers you can come up with for indirect. Here are my top openers
Examples of indirect:
In a club:
* use something in the environment"I love this song! it makes me just want to get up and dance!"
*If a girl appears bored or is texting" You have that look on your face like your bored
At the mall:
* ask for directions"excuse me im looking for the Armani exchange" then transition"thank you you were very friendly do you shop here often? i have a terrible sense of style can you help me out?(Insta-date tip
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the key here is you have a playful attitude with indirect as with direct you are more serious. Also another thing is never hesitate to approach. I have a golden rule. HESITATE=MASTURBATE. even if you have no clue what to say approach immediately anyways. I have had alot of success just saying to a girl"hey i was gonna say something but i totally forgot, but hows it going are you from around here?" the key to having a good interaction is your body language and attitude
good luck guys i hope this was helpful
-Nocretis
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