I met my friends roommate last week and we connected pretty well. I should have made a move then but I'm still learnin and trying to build up my confidence. I am going to ask her out this weekend, but I'm not really sure how I should go about doing it. I haven't had a girlfriend in 3 or 4 years and I'm a little worried about it.

Do you guys have any good date ideas, there isn't much to do around here, its tucson. I was just going to see if she wanted to grab some dinner or go out for ice cream and then try and get to a party. Any advice or tips about asking her or what to do for the night would be greatly appreciated. I'm still really new to all of this so go easy on me haha.

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Evan/Bear
Tucson
eloncay11@gmail.com
Yeah Buddy

dude you guys know exactly what to do. WTF. everyone keeps posting shit on here and answers their own questions. You said it perfectly, invite her for maybe not dinner but coffee or ice cream then take her to a party. BOOM

HAVE CONFIDENCE!!!

Haha ok i know what ya mean

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Evan/Bear
Tucson
eloncay11@gmail.com
Yeah Buddy

Stop worrying about her being your girlfriend...

You're overthinking.

For now - close the date.

Eye on the ball.

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

This is just my personal opinion but I feel like you should invite her to hang out with you at your place instead of going out especially because your not sure how much she likes you and you don't want to invest money into a female that's not giving you any play. you should ask her if she smokes or drinks and invite her to your house to watch a movie or something if she drinks and you guys are alone and you flirt a little bit I guarantee something will happen

I live in the dorms right now so i really dont have much to do in my room haha, no tv or nothin. What about taking her out to a hookah bar or something like that?

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Evan/Bear
Tucson
eloncay11@gmail.com
Yeah Buddy

a regular bar would be better but just make sure your game is tight cause someone will take her from you if they have better game I really think you should make up a way to get her in your room even if it's just a party with your friends and her friends you really just need alcohol, females, music, and a few guys that attract females and you have an instant party perfect way to figure out if she is actually girlfriend material or not

One of my favorite things is to get them to watch a clip on YouTube. I usually go for "Welcome to the jungle" by 2Cellos.

It's a cool video, and gives me the chance to start with "Just imagine you and I are walking through Central park...a nd we stumble upon these guys...."

I shift her into thinking of us together... and she watches the video and I ramp towards the F-close.

If she likes rock at all, give it a try...

RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.