i was at the gym this afternoon and the most gorgeous girl i have seen in a long time was on the treadmill in the other room. im not kidding she was AMAZING. so anyway i was giving her proximity like crazy haha (not on purpose i just couldnt help but look) and although i dont feel like she was giving me ioi's or anything, she could definately tell i was interested and she didnt shy away (this is all based on body language and eye contact there was no verbal).
she was on the treadmill the entire time i was there and had her ipod in. this was a convenient excuse for me to not approach... i left the gym, tail between legs thinking "wtf are you doing with your life safety".
now in that situation i was thinking a few things
-there are huge guys all over the gym. i have no chance.
-if i approach and get rejected everyone in this building which i visit 5 times a week will hear it. (i dont really care about what the girl thinks. more what people around me think).
what would you have done in my position?

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Do you really get that worked up over getting shot down? Who cares, I'd even admit it. Woman like that deny all sorts of guys it isn't a big deal so long as you have class afterwards and dismiss the fact that there is no interest on her part. If you linger around and become creepy yeah you can certainly look bad but if you are just like ok whatever.

In this situation I would probably just keep going to the gym and if you run into and find a point where she isn't in her own little world(music in working out) then open. I don't know of an easy way to get her attention without it being negative. I suppose a smile and wording hi to her may test her interests and you can go from there. Or acting like you didn't see the headphones and starting a conversation, then seeing how she reacts by taking out the headphones.

Do you think a woman is really impressed with looks that much that you don't have a chance based off of other men being bigger? YOU ARE WRONG. Looks are a small percentage of attraction. Attraction isn't about looks it is about making a woman feel good. Making her feel good brings on a physiological change, and she associate that change with you. So if you are at the gym you are lucky enough that really all you need to do is have a good sense of humor and a little familiarity and she will be attracted. Never ever place another human being above yourself. Be confident and realize you are as good anyone.

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The best one in the gym is pretending you don't know how to use something ie stand on the treadmill next to her pressing buttons and looking confused then ask "excuse you couldn't help me out, I'm trying to set the to a fat burning mode" this will break te ice and also make hr feel good if she does know how to.

Also like poet said just because there are large guys there doesn't mean that's what she is into. Who cares if they see you get shot down? Have you even seen them try?

I game girls in the gym all the time. Shit's easy. First off, I'm not a big guy. By any stretch of the imagination. I'm tall and have a thin skeletal frame so I look even thinner than I actually am. Believe me, you don't need to be big to pick up girls at the gym. It absolutely does help to be in good shape though. Obviously she's into taking care of her self, that's what she'll expect in a guy she's interested in.

Here's the easiest way to do it, become friends with everyone at the gym. It's social proofing. The hardest part about chatting up girls at the gym is telegraphing immediate sexual interest. You're lifting wets, sweating, testosterone is coursing through your body, it's like a meat market in there and it makes a lot of girls really uncomfortable when a guy approaches them there. Most of these girls just want to get in, do there workout, and go home. Start chatting up with people in between sets. Get on a first name basis with every person that works there. Smile at other girls and say what's up to the guys. Go spot that 16 year old kid struggling to bench press 95 lbs and tell him to keep at it. Chicks notice this stuff. When you do say what's up to her it will seem completely natural for her. If you've put in enough work, she's noticed you and been wondering when it was her turn to talk to you. Casually get on the treadmill next to her and say hi and transition into talking about literally anything interesting. Five minutes into the conversation tell her you feel like grabbing a smoothie and ask her if she wants to come. Insta date. If she says no, or she's busy, say 'cool, put your number in my phone and we can grab a drink another time' and hand her your phone.

Let me know if you use this and how it goes. The key is to be the cool guy. Calm, confident, comfortable and entertaining.

like i said man i really couldnt care less what the girl thinks of me if she were to shoot me down but its more what standers by think for me.

and pure playa that is some great advice! im going to get started on that asap because i have always wondered what the best way would be to make girls notice me in the gym would be (where outside the gym i think its pretty easy just by dressing well, holding myslef well and making suggestive eye contact)
thanks

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I was talking about others perception, if other people asked I'd even admit I got shot down, it's no big deal. Men and women would respect the fact that you tried. If you think they'd be like I can't believe you got shot down, you are wrong. It is your smoothness or coolness after you get shot down that shows your value. Don't walk off with your tail between your legs, walk off like oh well she isn't interested.

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