Greetings PUA's

I'm new to the seduction community, but I do understand the importance of having day game. Bars and clubs are more convenient because they offer social settings to meet beautiful women. However, I see just as many quality women when running errands, at the mall, the gym or in church.

The problem is that they’re not customary places for seduction to occur – the task at hand takes priority, and socializing is secondary. How do I overcome this limited thinking and devise a plan to change the odds? Any advice or examples would truly be appreciated.

Cheers,

Bravo

Whats up man, My advise would be to reframe your mind set, forget about customary places to approach women. Anytime you see an attractive woman there should be nothing holding you back from going right in and starting a conversation.
forget about the limitations of social programming your in this community now and as xuma would say, approaching women isnt what you do its part of who you are.

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-Holiday MD

like that

I'm also pretty new in the community. Where can I learn more? I just finished the Game by Strauss.

Bravo, nice to meet you. If you haven't read the Game, please check it out. It offers quite a good story, points, and lay's a good idea of what the seduction community can be like.

It also shows some of the pit falls that PUA people can fall into as well. It shows the Good, the Bad, the Ugly, and Fucking Sexy.

The game is a good read but is out of date in the community, mystery and style have older methods I would recommend looking into the mpua's on this site for new material, because male and female an enourmous amount of people have read the game.

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-Holiday MD

Roosh's Day Bang is a pretty good read, you can find it on his blog (rooshv.com)

Day game can be easier, especially if you want to establish long-term or semi-serious relationships. Night game is not more "ideal" for seduction, no girl wants to tell her friends "I met my husband at a bar!" she would much rather tell them she met you at a bookstore as the both of you were reaching for the same book. Take advantage of these cognitive biases, women love to meet guys at places like cafes and bookstores.

Night game can be easier because of alcohol and the loosened inhibitions that come with going out. HOWEVER, this comes with a caveat. It becomes harder to follow up with girls as any serious rapport you've built tends to get washed out by the time she wakes up the next morning. This is a problem especially prevalent among AFCs who have JUST been introduced to game, as they quickly learn to build attraction but lack the experience to know how to calibrate from there.

If you have tight game, it doesn't matter where or how you approach women. Talking to a 10 at a cafe is not any harder than talking to a 8 at a nightclub, it's just DIFFERENT.

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